Pure, Unadulterated Joy

Money, Money, Money! I won the pitching contest!

By Joy A. Kennelly

As a publicist, when you're pitching the media you have very limited time to get your point across. As a result, you learn to speak quickly, succinctly and cover all your bases in a minute or less.

That training came in handy today when I participated in the pitching contest in front of 3 venture capitalists judges during the final day of StartupLA which was a great "unconference" as they like to call it!

I've never, ever pitched a product in person like that before in front of an audience no less and it was a little intimidating to say the least, but afterwards I knew I'd nailed it. I was affirmed by the judges who said I'd done a great job which made me hopeful that I'd won, but still unsure because there were a couple others I felt were good too. I was so nervous my face was twitching during the judge's critique! I hope no one else saw that!:)

I wasn't able to stay because I had my class and asked a friend to accept on my behalf in the event I did win. She agreed as long as the main organizer agreed and she was fine with it so I raced off to Hollywood.

I was on such a high! It was like all these years of toiling away behind the scenes had paid off and I was validated as a professional in front of my peers. I've sold things since I was a child and am extremely competitive. As a result, when I came to the event today it was with the sole purpose of winning. I didn't even know there was a prize, but when I came out of my class I had 2 messages telling me I'd won a $1,000!

How cool is that? What a great event! I know how much work goes into organizing events having produced numerous events over the years. The speakers and sessions they produced were very impressive. I hope you make the next one!

I caught the tail end of Jason Calacanis' speech the night before and he totally cracked us up with his blunt observations on what it's like to be an entrepreneur. Anyone who's been doing this for any length of time could totally relate. He was a riot! If you EVER get the chance to hear him speak, do. You won't regret it at all.

He runs Mahalo along with Mark Jeffrey and it seems like it's a very cool company. A human driven search engine I believe - very cool.

StartupLA was very interesting because there were so many tech people and I haven't seen that many since the early days of the tech boom. People who are involved in the tech world are always extremely creative, extremely bright and extremely driven which I just love being around.

It was a great experience and I highly, highly recommend you attend the next one when it happens. I met some amazing VC's, heard some great speakers, saw people I haven't seen in a while, and met some cool entrepreneurs. Very fun and informative. Loved it!

Now to collect my money. Still can't believe I won a $1,000 doing what I do all the time! I'm thinking I should hire myself out to help entrepreneurs sell their ideas to VC's as a business! Couldn't you just see it now? I could pitch people's businesses at various VC contests (if such beasts even exist), win the prize money and take a commission off the money funded!

We'll see. Stranger things have happened, eh? I just got a call from someone whose work I highly respect and it came out of the blue. Could be a new direction for me and I'm all for it. For those of you interested in learning what it was I pitched, here's my winning 60 second pitch about Travel Play Company  and the Travel Tray in a nutshell (give or take a few things because I was in the zone and can't really remember everything!)

$1,000 60 second winning pitch

My name is Joy Kennelly and I've been involved in PR & Marketing for the past 10 years. Recently I was hired to represent Travel Play Company and the Travel Tray for children. (I had a sample of the product and pulled it out to show how it worked and what it looked like.) This helps children keep their food and toys in their laps when traveling.

It retails for $19.95 or $24 and is manufactured for $3, but with mass production can be reduced to $1.50. The main target market we see this product sold to is the auto industry, next is the airline industry and basically anyone who has children. We've sold 1,000 pieces to date with minimal advertising support.

The company is looking to sell the patent, license the product or sell the company. I see it as a company in a box because it's ready to go with the right funding.

Okay, now I'm fuzzy. I think that's all I said - correct me if I'm wrong. I was so nervous! Anyway, it was a great experience and I'm eager to do it again for other companies and products. I love competition! Plus, I love the money! We shall see!

BTW, Travel Play really is for sale as is the patent. Contact me if you're interested. (the contact button is messed up and you really do need to contact me for any info ok? Thanks!)

Let's make a deal!

There was a minor mis-connect afterwards which prevented me from taking the check home tonight, but I've been assured the "check is in the mail." Can't wait! Pretty cool for a minute's work, eh?

After that, dashed downtown to the Murakami exhibit at The Geffen Contemporary at MOCA. It was the perfect way to wind down because it was like walking through another world. At one point I felt like I entered a whacked out It's A Small World from Disneyland it was so absolutely wild.

Another room felt like Wizard of Oz on drugs... Huge almost 2 story fantastical Anime sculptures, HUGE floor to ceiling, wall-to-wall paintings filled with bold colors, wild crazy images and lots of detail.

It was a little overwhelming after the day I'd been having. Almost too much sensory overload because the Geffen is a HUGE almost warehouse like space with lots of large rooms filled with lots of amazing, over-the-top pieces of art as sculptures, paintings, installations, media etc. I LOVED IT!

If you see only one art show this year, please make the effort to see this one. It will blow you away. I can only imagine what the curator and programmer went through to pull this all together.

I've never seen such variety of work on such a large scale ever. It was like walking through a crazy mixed up world of Japanese Anime art that someone crazy had come up with, but not in a scary way, more like a great big adult playhouse if this makes sense.

This exhibit is absolutely brilliant in my humble opinion. I'm going to go back to see it when there aren't so many people around, however, with the turn-out tonight I'm sure the crowds aren't going away any time soon. I think all MOCA's members came out for this event it was so packed! People watching was at a high because of it being Halloween weekend - lots of costumes, interesting people and children too!

My friend and I arrived on the early side and there were still lines out the doors for the video room and the Louis Vuitton store. Simply breathtaking and awe-inspiring to think all that art came from one person. I was blown away and I'm sure you will be too. Check it out and let me know what you think!

You have to like modern art obviously! I believe I heard rumor it's the only US Exhibit Murakami is holding. The show runs through February 11, 2008 - Run, don't walk to see this exhibit. You'll be glad you did.

Afterwards enjoyed great fish and chips at The Village Idiot courtesy of my good friend Adrienne of Magnolia PR who celebrated my win with me. She's had some great wins for clients recently too and as soon as she sends me the tear sheets I'll share it with you. She and I work really well together and she's going to help me spread the word on Travel Play Company too which will be great!

Okay, that's all for now. Have a good one!

Somewhere over the rainbow... Today was great!

By Joy A. Kennelly

I'm very tired, but my neighbor is listening (very loudly) to the Somewhere over the rainbow song by that Hawaiian singer which is nice music to write by so here I am. Aloha!:) I must say, he has a great stereo system and nice taste in music so it's cool to listen to (except when I'm trying to sleep, but I just turn on the air filter and a scripture CD and before I know it I'm out like a light.)

Today was busy, but fun. I went to pick up my new client, Travel Play Company's donation of 20 boxes of their travel tray for children to use while traveling. We figured since a lot of kids were now homeless they would like to have a little tray to keep all their toys and projects on their lap in one place, or at least their parent's would appreciate it as they drove around. Plus, they were brand new.

We took the truck over to the Rose Bowl for the fire victim donations and were almost turned away by the American Red Cross, but the workers helping me spoke in Spanish to another Spanish official and he loved the idea. Fortunately I had flyers to show what it was and how to use it which were very helpful. We gave 500 pieces altogether.

I hope it blesses the kids and families who receive them as much as it blessed us to participate in this effort. Apparently the American Red Cross and ABC 7 partnered with Save the Children non-profit to distribute everything. What a shame about all the terrible loss for everyone. I hope they catch the arsonist and people responsible.

Thanks for your prayers regarding my friend Deborah's family cabin and her boyfriend's mom's place. Both are safe. She was very grateful to read that I'd done that and I know some of you took the time to bless her in that way so thank you!

Afterwards, drove over to UCLA for the entrepreneur conference which went well. Very funny, interesting key note speaker Mark Jeffrey who apparently according to Variety was one of the top 50 creatives to watch in Hollywood. Turns out he lived in Redondo Beach for a time.

Ever notice when you start to focus on something then everywhere you turn that comes up? I'm focused on the South Bay and now everywhere I go outside of the area I meet people from here. Too funny.

Just the other day at the Women's Conference I was walking the exhibit hall and bumped into a friend I see occasionally around town. Turns out Pamela's a board member for a non-profit called Women At Risk for women affected by HIV Aids based in the South Bay. See what I mean? Here I was in Long Beach and now here I meet her and learn about her life experience for the first time.

It's such a worthy cause because there are so many women affected by this awful disease and surprisingly enough, there are many Women at Risk support groups in the South Bay especially. Very sad, but hopeful too in a way. Here's a link to Pamela's CNN interview explaining her personal story and info on the non-profit in case you're interested.

This is a story I wish The Beach Reporter or The Easy Reader would highlight in our community papers. In fact there are so many interesting people, companies, etc. located down here whose stories are never told because people who've lived down here for any time forget how special we really are as a community.

How many other communities up and down the coast like this sleepy beach area have major professional athletes, newscasters or CEO's in their neighborhoods? Maybe more than I realize, but I like to think we're a little unique.:)

What about covering the actual candidates running for Hermosa Beach City Council so those who haven't made the debates could read an interview with them and know a little more where each of them stand? Just a thought editors.

Although I have to admit I enjoyed reading the Beach Reporter article on John Gurrola who claims to have amnesia on which bars were supporting his efforts to recruit people to keep the pier status quo. Maybe all the drinking has reduced his brain cells so much it's difficult to remember anything.

Funny how he's a Redondo Beach resident, yet he's interested in the Hermosa Beach elections. Go figure. Fight for your right to party right party boy? Check out his myspace page.

Anyway, now my neighbor is moving on to Lambamba and I'm over the music. Time to go, but just know it was a good day. I'm beat and have to get up early to turn around and catch the rest of the conference (I'm pitching Venture Capitalists!)

Then, off to my Groundling's class before hitting the Murakami/MOCA exhibit later on. Can't wait! I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE modern contemporary art, especially when it's so fun like this is.

Okay, have a good one. I'm outie.

Remarkable Lives. Remarkable Legacies. What's Yours?

By Joy A. Kennelly

Before I begin the wrap-up of yesterday's wonderful Women's Conference, I just want to extend my deepest sympathy to those whose lives and homes have been devastated by the wildfires. I experienced a fire evacuation living in Malibu many years back and I'll never forget the outpouring of kindness from strangers during my time of need.

If you'd like to help, a fellow Brunching Lady posted this announcement as a resource:

The Red Cross of Santa Monica is looking for volunteers to support Canteen  Services at the Malibu Fire staging area thru the next 48 hours and possibly  longer. They are also recruiting for Greater L.A. area Evacuation/Shelters. If  you are interested in volunteering please contact Beverly Holms via email at 
bholm@redcrossofsantamonica.org or Mark Solnick  at marks@redcrossofsantamonica.org

My best friend's cabin in Lake Arrowhead is under attack and her boyfriend's brother has already lost his Fallbrook home. Now his mother's home is under attack. Please pray for them and also all the others who are under siege. What's so sad to me is that an arsonist was involved in at least one of the fires. I hope they catch that person and put them away for a long time. What devastation.

I know going to a women's conference rather than volunteering immediately could be seen as callous or selfish, but I believe this event raised the consciousness of 14,000 women who attended on ways they could help via the American Red Cross which will perhaps have a greater impact in the long run. I don't know, I hope so though.

There were so many high-level female CEO's, Senior management etc who participated you never know what they will do once they return to their companies. I was very impressed that Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger chose to skip dialoging with former Prime Minister Tony Blair to participate fully in the relief efforts instead. I don't care what your politics are, you have to admire the way he's taken control of this situation and helped us receive federal aid so quickly.

I loved watching the interview this morning with I believe it was Good Morning America and the reporter kept trying to find something wrong with the way things had been handled. Arnold at one point, just took her by the hand and told her straight to her face you can try to find something wrong all you want, but this has been very positive and has been handled beautifully. That will remain to be seen, but for now, I want to believe that's the case so allow me this for now. I love it when men take charge! Go Ahnold!

You do have to admit this was handled drastically differently than Katrina and I'm so glad to see the government seemingly has learned from their mistakes. However, I'm sure good 'ole Rev. Jesse Jackson and his crony, Al Sharpton will soon be saying it was a race thing that this was handled so quickly. GIVE ME A BREAK!

I'm so sick of their racist talk. When are they ever going to realize that as long as you claim to be a victim you will be a victim? Maybe I'm misinformed and maybe I don't know enough about what they do, but that's my personal opinion of them based on what I've seen and heard.

Yes, Katrina was shameful and there was no excuse for how it was handled, but please don't turn this wildfire disaster into a race issue. The families who are so devastated don't need to hear that on top of everything else they're going through. Plus, don't you think Rev. Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton, maybe we as the American public could be a little sick of you always taking advantage of certain situations for your own personal platform? ENOUGH ALREADY!

I was invited to attend the inaugural breakfast for the National Academy of Media Arts & Sciences which I would have gone to, but the idea of getting up super early to drive up to Hollywood to hear Rev. Jesse Jackson as the guest speaker was revolting.

I can't stand him on TV and I will definitely not waste time hearing him in person. Sorry organizers. Yes, there are people in Hollywood who have different opinions than the majority. My son is half Nigerian and I don't want him to ever think his race plays a part in whether or not he is successful in life.

I would love to see an African American man or woman who is making positive contributions to society begin to be the mouthpiece for this community rather than Rev. Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton. If you're out there, please speak now or forever hold your peace.

Actually, yesterday Sweet Alice Harris of Watts was honored with a Minerva Award for her work rebuilding Watts after the horrific riots and ever since. Here's a little blurb on her from another web site:

Sweet Alice, Executive Director of Parents of Watts in Los Angeles, presides over more than 15 programs that operate on a shoestring, combining contracts and support from community businesses. POW provides emergency food and shelter for the homeless; conducts health seminars; provides legal and drug counseling; promotes harmony among Hispanics, Koreans, and blacks; operates a program for unwed mothers; and prepares young people for the job market and for college.

Now she's someone I will listen to and come hear speak over and over and over again. This woman has dedicated her life to rebuilding her community and realizes that it's not race that is the issue, but self dignity and self respect regardless of race, color or creed. The men in charge of selecting speakers for NAMAS could learn something from this humble woman.

That's why it was so important for this women's conference to continue as originally planned and for Maria Shriver to lead it the way she did. In this male-dominated society where so often it's only a male perspective that is heard and followed, we as women leaders and nurturers need a day where our talents, our abilities, our leadership and our womanhood is celebrated.

We need to see that there are amazing women making contributions to society who are the unsung heroes of America. We need to know that it is possible to run major corporations and do it with grace, humor, style and determination. We need to be inspired to grow and develop into the leaders we were meant to be and you can only do that by seeing and hearing people who encourage, exhort and develop you as women.

First Lady Maria Shriver may receive some flak from the media for not being by her husband's side as the devastation was raging around our state, but I think she was right where she was supposed to be - with all 14,000 of us leading, inspiring and encouraging us to be all we were meant to be. You really must hear the speech she gave once it's uploaded on the web site. It was the most moving, vulnerable, honest, heartfelt speech I have ever heard from someone in her position.

Despite all her wealth, fame, family connections, and political connections, she revealed her humanity and allowed us to see her flaws and all. I know it profoundly affected those in attendance. Later on at lunch I was privileged to sit at a table with Actress Rita Wilson and Screenwriter Nora Ephron. What a gracious, warm, giving person Rita Wilson is (oh and she produces, directs and writes too!) It was very interesting to hear her recount Maria's speech to Nora and explain the impact it had on her life. That's what I'm talking about people.

It doesn't matter what level of success and acclaim you've received. We are women first and foremost. We cry, we feel, we laugh, we help, we hurt, we encourage, we love and we are so much more than our titles, our positions, our jobs, our families, our responsibilities. We are so amazing and it's time we embrace that we are unique simply by virtue of our gender. I'm not sure that's what Maria expected me to take away from her speech, but that's my take-away - take it or leave it!

When all is stripped away and we are left alone with simply ourselves - who are we really? To hear someone like her with all her accomplishments and everything else she has experienced in her life get back to such basics it was really wonderful to share that moment with her.

What I loved also during Eunice Kennedy Shriver's acceptance of her Minerva Lifetime Achievement Award was that she gave us three wishes (which I'm horribly paraphrasing - please excuse me) for us which are as follows:

1. She wished us the love of a family. She said if we didn't have a family to find the love of people who will treat you like family.

2. She wished for us to channel our feelings of injustice and anger into something positive. Her older sister was intellectually challenged and that is what has motivated Eunice to create over 165 Special Olympics all over the world. What an awe-inspiring woman she is.

3. Follow Maria. That was so sweet to hear because coming from Eunice that was the highest compliment she could have paid her daughter. I have to tell you after attending this conference I will follow Maria anywhere!

What an amazing woman she is too. I don't personally know her and for those of you who do and have other feelings about her - keep them to yourself. I like what I saw and heard and I want to remain impressed because I desperately  need female role-models who are making a difference.

There are many male leaders with flaws and yet it seems like society likes to tear down women faster for some reason. It's time we accept and embrace women as leaders flaws and all too. They're only human and doing the best they can. Let's come alongside and help them become better rather than tear them down ok? What a novel concept!

What I found interesting yesterday during my time escorting Campbell Soup President Denise Sullivan Morrison, was the fact she said that after her and her three other sister's appearance on the Today Show
she received numerous emails which she said she put into three piles. One pile from people sharing how happy they were to hear about Father/Daughter stories since that's rarely been told. A 2nd pile which I forget (sorry - Denise if you read this, please put a comment at the bottom to explain.) and the 3rd pile from people telling her it was so nice to hear about a CEO who hadn't been indited! What does that say about our society?

What I thought was great about all four "Sullivan Sisters" (who I had the privilege of getting to know by virtue me and my other associates needed to escort them around as a team for their speaking engagement), is that although all four had achieved tremendous success in their lives, they were all still extremely humble and had a sense of humor about them. How rare!

I'll have to share about their talk in another blog because I want to give an overview to the conference and don't have a lot of time. Just know, these women and so many other speakers were so inspirational I was on such a high after that day. Exhausted, but on a high!

There were so many great speakers it will be hard to highlight all, but I believe Lifetime will be showcasing this event on their web site or channel if you get a chance to watch. It's highly worth it.

Thomas Friedman, Author & Pultizer Prize-winning New York Times Columnist, had some great comments to make about leadership. He quoted someone who had said, "Pessimists are usually right. Optimists are usually wrong, but optimists are the ones who change the world." I love that! Yes, I'm an optimist and proud of it.

I also loved it when he introduced Arnold Schwarzeneger as "Maria Shriver's husband." Thomas definitely knew what he was doing at this women's conference. Arnold communicated to us from the fires via satellite. There were constant well wishes for the firefighters and those devastated by the fires which brought this issue to the forefront of our minds despite being in the conference which I thought was very cool.

Especially when the American Red Cross was given the opportunity to encourage people to donate blood and other resources because I know they weren't originally on the schedule, but this emergency took precedence. So, if anyone has anything to say against Maria Shriver for not being with her husband during this day, please realize that her efforts to influence 14,000 compassionate, driven, motivated women will do more to help this emergency effort than for her to be merely an appendage of her husband on site. There, I've said it. Enough already.

I was thrilled to actually hear former Prime Minister Tony Blair speak because I loved watching The Queen and was very impressed with his portrayal in that film. I was curious to see him live and in person. I was not disappointed.

He's charming, personable, diplomatic, intelligent, funny, and down-to-earth (just like in the film - hee hee!) and I was very impressed with him. I'm not into politics and never watched his speeches on Iraq or anything else so don't know his political stance, but I admire him as a man and human being.

I thought Thomas Friedman was an excellent interviewer (as did the Pulitzer Prize people!:) and when he asked Tony (yes, we're on a first name basis now) what he thought about learning, Tony replied, "Ask who are your favorite teachers of all your friends and then take whatever they're teaching."

I found that statement very interesting in light of the fact Back to College for a Day has done just that and is offering that type learning experience for adults! Way to go Audrey! I wish you much success this weekend and hope lots of people sign up - it's not too late!

Tony also said, "Leadership is better after listening." Thomas agreed and said, "Be a good listener - it's a sign of respect. It's amazing what people will say when they know you respect them." When Thomas asked Tony what he thought of the Queen, Tony laughed and then said, "She's very shrewd. Pretty much universally loved by British people and I admire her very much." Spoken like a true politician, and I believe he meant every word.

Then they discussed the technological advances our world has made and how that is impacting our lives today. Thomas shared how he had traveled to India to visit the equivalent to Microsoft over there and was invited to speak to American interns who had chosen to learn in that environment to help set them apart from their colleagues back home. That was very interesting to hear. These students realized that to stand out in today's environment they needed to show the ability to collaborate and get along with people.

Tony said, in light of everything technological, "don't forget the importance of inter-personal skills." He said when he wanted to raise his children to have these qualities: "happy, optimistic, get along with others, politeness, good manners (because) it was about as good as an education."

Now if only Jody Williams, Nobel Peace Prize-winning organizer, activist, teacher and writer's people had gotten this into their thick skulls when asked to accommodate the speakers at the speakers only table. I've never seen such rude, entitled, selfish, haughty women for no reason at all! GET A CLUE WOMEN! You are nothing and you need to realize that just because you're with a Nobel Peace Prize speaker it doesn't give you the right to be disrespectful to others you come across. Maybe if they read this they'll see themselves and change, but I doubt it. Once a bitch, generally always a bitch (unless they find God! LOL)

Enough on those women though, there were so many other amazing women it's not worth focusing on them, but I did want them to know their actions and behavior was appalling. Speaking of human behavior, the aspect of Tony Blair I especially admired was that he realized he gave up his right to privacy by taking such a public role.

When asked by Thomas about the current interaction of modern media and public life under 24 hours scrutiny, he said, "it was a privilege to do these jobs." However, he added, "The public has to be willing to accept the human side of the public leader....The relationship between public and politicians need understanding all the way around."

That was a perfect way to view the conversation Maria Shriver held with the Presidential Spouses interview. Elizabeth Edwards, Cindy Hensley McCain, Michelle Obama, Ann Romney, and Jeri Thompson were all part of this discussion and it was great to hear them live and in person.

Due to my escorting the VIP's all day I was able to sit on the floor of the auditorium and had great seats the entire day. I must say, of all the wives, Elizabeth Edwards and Michelle Obama were my favorites. What grace, class, intelligence, wisdom, and down-to-earth women. I admire all of the women who spoke. I haven't begun to explore who I intend to vote for come election time, but after hearing all of these women speak I know a little better who I won't be casting my vote for!

I think Fred Thompson's wife, Jeri, is very sweet, but too focused on being a mother (as she should be, but not if she wants to have any influence on our country for the greater good.) She admitted herself that she has a lot to learn which I thought was very cool. However, knowing Fred Thompson's age, her inexperience in this realm, their small children and her lack of opinions on public policy, I don't see "them" as strong candidates at all!

I thought it would have been funny to have Bill Clinton there as the "First Man" but I liked the fact it was all women. Michelle Obama is fantastic! She has such a grip on reality and is so real and intelligent I would vote for Obama by virtue of knowing she's on his team any day. Elizabeth Edwards the same thing.
What a warm, compassionate, wise woman she is.

Not to say the others weren't, but I thought Ann Romney talked too much and I think at a certain point you need to know when to speak and when not to. Cindy McCain came out on crutches and I liked her as a person, but she seemed a little distant. Could just be her personality or her bleached hair, but it was a little off putting. Now after reading more about her, I'm very impressed. She needs media training to learn how to express herself and all she is because she's great! I love that she wants to make a difference in foster care!

When I vote however, I won't be voting for the wives, but the husbands so these women are a moot (see Mike I learn...) point.

Anyway, there are so many other amazing speakers, but I need to get to work so I must end. More later I promise. There were just too many good ones not to share more!

Have a great day!

I am woman hear me roar! What an empowering day

By Joy A. Kennelly

I am absolutely exhausted having awakened at 3am and then jamming all day at the Women's Conference. This was such a mind blowing day, but I'm so tired I'll have to tell you all about it tomorrow.
I'm so exhausted...

Inspiring.

The Women's Conference - briefed today - AWESOME!

By Joy A. Kennelly

What an amazing line-up for tomorrow's Women's Conference! I'm so blown away that I get to be part of it. Now THIS is a women's conference like a women's conference should be done - no silly speeches, few stupid booths, but lots of impactful, accomplished men and women speaking about issues that really matter.

How exciting to hear Prime Minister Tony Blair and Her Majesty Queen Rania Al-Abdullah of Jordan and so many other people I'd never imagined I'd actually get to hear speak live and in person. So many I've read their books, seen their films, heard them speak on the radio or TV, was interviewed by one, and others I've just wanted to learn from.

Apparently, the most popular discussion with the media will be with the four Presidential candidate's wives. Can't wait!

I'm thrilled to be escorting Denise Sullivan Morrison, one of the four Sullivan sisters who will be speaking on Raising Women Leaders: Four Sisters at the Top. Can't wait to hear that panel! It's very exciting to hear from women leaders because so often I feel so alone as one because there's so many men who are powerful in business, but very few women.

I was getting choked up just walking around the convention center realizing that this is for all of us women. Here's the Pledge for the Conference which also got me a little choked up. I'm taking this pledge and encourage you to do so too if you're female and you're reading this.

Our goal is to have The Women's Conference be more than just a day. We want you to have an experience that will encourage you to live your own life -- not that of your kids or your husband, not that of your boss or coworkers, but your own remarkable life.  

So we've come up with a Conference Pledge we hope will focus and guide you to that goal.   We believe that by taking this pledge, we will come together with a shared sense of purpose:  that in empowering ourselves to live our own legacies, we can help other women do the same.

Ten Things I Pledge to Myself

1. I pledge to "show up" in my life as myself, not as an imitation of anyone else.
2. I pledge to avoid using the word "just" to describe myself.   For example, I won't say,  "I'm just a mother,"  "I'm just a student," or "I'm just an ordinary person."
3. I pledge to give myself ten minutes of silence and stillness every day to get in touch with my heart and hear my own voice.
4. I pledge to use my voice to connect my dreams to my actions.
5. I pledge to use my voice to empower myself and others.
6. I pledge to serve my community at least once a year in a way that will benefit other women.
7. I pledge to ask myself, "Who am I?  What do I believe in?   What am I grateful for?   What do I want my life to stand for?"
8. I pledge to sit down and write my own mission statement.
9. I pledge to live my own legacy.
10. And I pledge to pass it on.

Amen Sisterhood! God bless!

More tomorrow... Can't wait!

The Women's Conference

This is the Women's conference I'm working next week. Isn't it cool? Can't wait. I want to meet these people! Sorry it's screwy in the design, but I'm not handy with that part of blogging.:) If you're unable to attend but still want to check it out you can watch the webcast presented by Lifetime. Yeah women empowerment!

                                                                                                                                                   

                   

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                    We are thrilled to announce that the 2007                     California Governor and First Lady's Conference                     on Women will be available on a free live                     streaming webcast sponsored by Lifetime                     Networks on Tuesday,                     October 23^rd.
                   
                    All of the main stage sessions will be                     broadcast live                     from the Conference website, www.californiawomen.org                     from 8:00 am to 6:45                     pm PDT.

                   

                    Featured                     speakers include:

                                                                                                                                                                                 

Opening Session 8:00 - 10:00                         am

Katharine McPhee,                             RCA Recording Artist Thomas Friedman,                             Author & Pulitzer Prize Winning                             Columnist Governor Arnold Schwarzenneger Tony Blair,                             Former Prime Minister for the United                             Kingdom Loretta Claiborne,                             Special Olympics Athlete First Lady Maria Shriver

                                                                                                                                                                                 

Luncheon Session 12:30 -                         2:30 pm

Jamie Lee Curtis,Actress &                             Author Ed Begley, Jr. Actor &                             Environmental Advocate Her Majesty Queen Rania Al-Abdullah                             of Jordan First Lady Maria Shriver Moderates                             a Conversation with Presidential                             Spouses Elizabeth Edwards Cindy Hensley McCain Michelle Obama Ann Romney Jeri Thompson Honoring Women Living with                             Breast Cancer with Elizabeth                             Edwards, Linda Ellerbee &                             Friends

                                                                                                                                       

Afternoon Session &                         Minerva Awards

Diane von Furstenberg, Fashion                             Designer & President of the Council                             of Fashion Designers of                             America Jody Williams, 1997 Nobel                             Peace Prize Laureate &                             Professor Muhammed Yunus, 2006 Nobel                             Peace Prize Laureate First Lady Maria Shriver                             Presents Minerva Awards The Legendary Joan Baez

Here's a great fashion challenge for teens! Go for it!

Here's an example of a friend's press release in case you were wondering what one looks like. Great event and I hope if you're the right age you go for it!

(The blank spot was a picture, but I'm too tired to figure out where it went or how to delete it so bear with me ok? Or bare with me as people so often misspell this word!)

Notice the format - title, subtitle, location, date, lead paragraph, body paragraph, quote and boiler plate paragraphs on each company. I can explain more later, but just wanted to get this out because I promised my friend I would. Plus, I told you I'd share how to write a press release. More details later, but look at this as an example for now. I cut off the contact info because I don't like to distribute that via blogs because weird people sometimes come by and may spam people's email info.

Enjoy the read!
JOY

Tommy Hilfiger and BKFK Launch the "Signature Style Challenge" with $10,000 Grand Prize

Did you know that Stella McCartney, Tommy Hilfiger, Hillary Duff, Zac Posen and Jean Paul Gaultier all achieved success in the fashion world before the age of 18?

STAMFORD, CT - October 19, 2007 - By Kids For Kids (BKFK) and Tommy Hilfiger today announced the "Signature Style Challenge," designed to uncover America's future fashionistas and teenage style gurus. With an unprecedented $10,000 Grand Prize, the "Signature Style Challenge" will inspire scores of creative teens to try their hand at fashion design, and focus a powerful spotlight on emerging design talent. The new Idea Locker™ at BKFK.com will support the design process, and provide a valuable opportunity for networking and style critique.

The Signature Style Challenge seeks original designs in the areas of apparel, accessories, footwear, hair/make up, jewelry, handbags, totes, scarves, belts, etc. All youth 19 and under are eligible to participate. In addition to the $10,000 Grand Prize, the winner will receive a "Connection to Reality," which is the opportunity to spend a day shadowing a designer from Tommy Hilfiger in their Manhattan studio. All entries must be received by December 31st at BKFK's newly revamped website, www.bkfk.com.

"The world of fashion is competitive, exciting and glamorous - and anyone with original ideas can break into this world," commented BKFK Founder and CEO Norman Goldstein, "We are excited to join forces with Tommy Hilfiger to uncover teen design talent- and look forward creating opportunities for aspiring creative designers to achieve success in the real world."

Besides the Signature Style Challenge, BKFK also just launched 3 other exciting competitions. . The Digital Arts Challenge seeks digital storytellers, The Sports Evolution Challenge seeks new ideas for fitness and sporting goods, and the Going Green Challenge seeks eco-friendly product ideas to help the environment. BKFK will launch four invention competitions each quarter- with a total of $160,000 in prize money. Further information on all competitions can be found on BKFK.com.

About "Idea Locker™

"The Idea Locker™, powered by BKFK, is a private online space where teens can create, develop, store and share their ideas. Partially adopting the social networking style now familiar to the target age group, users will be able to add friends, chat, share ideas and provide ratings and feedback on ideas that others have decided to share through their "Idea Locker™."

The "Idea Locker™ " also supports The Signature Style Challenge by providing a digital model entrants can dress and send down a virtual runway.

This secure personal locker can hold as many ideas as the user can dream up. The Idea Locker™ also includes a mechanism for uploading files such as text, images, audio and video.

BKFK has refined its process over years of experience to accept ideas online in a safe and secure manner. The new Idea Locker™ employs a number of tactics to educate the users about Intellectual Property and protecting their rights while developing their innovations. Minors who wish to share their ideas must receive parental approval to do so. The Idea Locker™ then allows teens to adjust the levels of privacy on ideas in their locker to private, semi-private or public.

About By Kids For Kids Co.

By Kids For Kids Co., "BKFK" is a closely held corporation based in Stamford, Conn., is the leading global marketing, branding and licensing company dedicated to making teens' ideas a reality. Having produced numerous successful invention competitions, BKFK is finely attuned to what teens want. Their mission is to inspire, motivate and stimulate the innovative spirit within all young people. In addition to providing free support and educational resources to the world's youth, BKFK provides entrepreneurial experiences for young inventors and supports the entire ideation through commercialization process. Learn more: www.bkfk.com

More Across the Universe - still lovin' it... Sang this morning...

By Joy A. Kennelly

Just back from singing at both services this morning and have to tell you. I totally forgot how much fun it is to sing with a group - especially one that is as talented as my worship team. Such beautiful harmonies, guitar and bass playing, drums and keyboards. When the band is good everyone sounds good.

What a pleasure. Now I just want to sing all day. No wonder people put bands together. It's so much fun! I'm listening to my new soundtrack from Across the Universe and singing along again. I think my upstairs neighbors weren't too happy with the loud music after I returned home so late, but I never blast music and I'm moving so there!:)

Plus, they've been noisy so often which I've tolerated they owe me. I just needed to decompress from my busy day. Was out apartment hunting all morning and then in my Groundlings class which I just love, love, love, love! HOW FUN! I'm having a ball this fall with all my classes.

Oh, I forgot to tell you about the Strawberry Fields scene and music. Amazing art and symbolism - in the film, not my link - that's the real Beatles! Oh yeah, the actress who plays Prudence, T.V. Carpio and the English actor who plays Max, Joe Anderson-- they're fun to watch too!

Here's an interesting review from the Kansas City Star.  Who knew Kansas people watched movies? JUST KIDDING!

Oh, and here's a great review from the LA Times. Oh, here's one female high schooler's review from Fredericksburg, VA. Guess I'm on the same wavelength as teenage girls! LOL. What can I say? I love good music and love stories too. 

Apparently so does Paul McCartney who according to this teen-age girl and I quote,  "But the last word appeared in Cleveland State University's school newspaper, "The Cauldron," in an interview with director Julie Taymor, who asked Paul McCartney, after viewing the film with him, if there was anything he didn't like. He replied, 'What's not to like?'"

I sure hope more people go to see this film! It deserves a HUGE audience. 

Helter Skelter. Helter Skelter. Man, don't those words evoke images of another time and age? Not that I was very old then... That Dana Fuchs is something else. I loved the line in the film that she was hot for a Cougar. Gotta love it! Go COUGARS! HA HA!

Salma Hayak even makes a sexy cameo in the hospital. Guys can you see it now? Salma Hayak in a cute, short nurse's outfit? She's a hot tamale even from a female perspective! Now that's an intelligent actress with her career. Who's her agent?

Okay, my soundtrack listening is done and so am I.

Have a musical day whatever you do. I have. I'll tell you about the Gen Art event from Friday night and today's sermon later ok? Just know, they both were great!

Across the Universe - LOVED IT! Heartbreak Kid - HATED IT!

By Joy A. Kennelly

Let it be. Let it be. Let it be. Let it be. Whisper words of wisdom. Let it be. There will be an answer. Let it be. Let it be. Let it be. Let it be. There will be an answer. Let it be. Let it be. Let it be. Whisper words of wisdom.

I never knew how profound all the Beatles music really was until I watched Across the Universe tonight.

Come together. beat. Right now. OVER ME.

I ran out and bought the soundtrack (I know why not just download it - but I wanted it now) and am listening to it as I write.

Come together right now. OVER ME.

Joe Cocker's singing. Awesome vibe. For those purist Beattle fans you're going to hate it, but I appreciate music in all forms if it's done well and this film is amazing. Like taking a trip back in history and I do mean trip. Parts were like what I imagine being on drugs must be on some psychedelic trip and it was so groovy man.

Bono's singing now. I've never heard this song sung by the Beatles and it's great in the film. I'm not going to give it away because you really must see the film to get the full experience. Bono's scene was fantastamical. Is that a word? It should be. I think Julie Taymor is my new artistic idol.

Funny, I just read the review of Across the Universe by the Washington Post and I couldn't disagree more with that reviewer's opinion. Maybe it helps because I'm not a diehard Beatles fan and just took the love story for what it was - a love story set against the Vietnam war and Beatles music.

It was all I could do not to sing along or stand up and start dancing at certain parts or even wave a lighter. Where's the songwriters like that of our generation?

I especially liked Dana Fuchs' musical performances - what a set of pipes! She's got the best raspy bluesy sound. I will agree with the WP reviewer on the fact that it was obvious that Dana was supposed to be Janis Joplin and Martin Luther was Jimi Hendrix, but it also obvious that they could never really be them.

I just enjoyed imagining what it might have been like if they were. These two were great just being themselves. Maybe that reviewer is old enough to remember the real Janis & Jimi, but I don't. As a result, I have nothing live to compare them to.

I could swear that Jim Sturgess sounded just like Ewan McGregor when he was singing in Moulin Rouge. Maybe it's the limey accent. Loved him singing, especially the opening song.

Evan Rachel Wood has a beautiful voice too. Who knew?  I especially liked her singing Blackbird. She is so talented. I kept waiting for her to get involved with drugs in this film, but she doesn't. Or does she? You'll just have to see it to find out. I like the fact she constantly stretches herself and plays so many diverse roles. I used to love watching her on Sisters, wasn't it? Can't remember.

What a fun surprise to see my favorite actor, Eddie Izzard, in another magical, crazy character. He is my favorite, favorite, favorite... I would love to meet him someday to tell him to his face. YOU'RE AWESOME! I will see anything he/she is in. I think, if I remember correctly, I got to see him live at the Aspen U.S. Comedy Arts Festival years back. If anyone knows him, please tell him I'm diehard fan number 1.

I'm getting tired and have to get up early tomorrow to sing. I just had to share about this wonderful movie. It may or may not be your thing, but if you liked Moulin Rouge and other large-scale musicals, you'll like this one.

People were clapping along in certain parts and a bunch of us clapped afterwards. I went to see it because I love music and knew that I would finally be able to cry which I've needed to do for days now. Damn PMS. This too shall pass. It always does.

It was funny. As I was standing in line to give my ticket to the attendant, a woman and her daughter struck up a conversation to ask me what I was going to see. I told them and asked what they were seeing. I didn't feel in the mood to talk so pushed on ahead thinking nothing of our chat.

However, when I was washing my hands in the bathroom, the woman came up to me again and said I'd like to give you my card. I asked her why? It just seemed so odd. She said, I'm a psychic and I do readings.

I was a little taken aback and told her thank you, but I'm a Christian and don't do that. She smiled kindly and then told me that something good was going to happen to me very soon. Then she turned and walked away. That's when I began to tear up. Then again during the war scene with people being shot.

I hate war. I hate violence. I wish it would stop. All of it, all over the world. Seeing it on the big screen just brought it home even stronger how much pain and sorrow war brings. It was riveting how the archival footage was intermingled with present day. You really must see this film. The parallels to today's world are startling.

In the meantime, don't waste your time seeing Heartbreak Kid. I hated it. I should have just left and asked for my money back, but I kept thinking it would redeem itself. I think it's the last Farrelly Brothers I'll go see.  I felt like I was watching a porn show at one point (without the close-up on genitals, but otherwise everything else.)

Ben, Ben, Ben. Why do you and your father think playing characters who are so demeaning and disrespectful to women would play well? We know you and your dad as funny guys who don't take the low road and in this film you slimed your way out of my heart. Your father was downright disgusting to watch.

Is he trying to be hip in his old age by acting so crass? It was just sick and wrong. Bad Stellers. Bad Stellers. Go to your room for a spanking. What tell your mother gets home because your dad obviously has no sense.

Why does Hollywood think it's ok to degrade the sanctity of marriage over and over and over again? It just made me so sad... like maybe I'm going to have to stop going to see film in general if my spirit is going to be assaulted in such a way. I did say I was PMSy right?

Anyway, then I see Across the Universe and it restores my faith in artistic expression. There was nudity in Across the Universe, but it was artful and within context.

Not F#$%ing for F*(&%$'s sake. Sick and wrong to play that sorry excuse for a movie THK the way it was in the trailer. I'm glad it's doing poorly in the box office and I hope it just disappears. Enough already Hollywood.

I feel real sorry for the actress, Malin Akeman. Especially in the peeing scene on the beach. Gross and stupid. Eva Langoria should stick to TV, but she did play a good Mexican. HA! So did Carlos Mencia, but I wonder what the hispanic culture thinks of his stereotypical character.

But then again, that's what the F brothers are known for, right? Stereotypes, sick humor, and denigration of women. I guess I've outgrown their type of humor. The movie seemed like it was one scene stuck together for laughs and among the four people I was sitting in the theatre with, there weren't very many.

Stupid, stupid, stupid, or should I say stupido. Hasta Luega babies.

Now you know my taste. So be it. That's all. See ya.

Oh, and please go see Across the Universe. If nothing else, to leave a comment telling me how wrong I am. Or right. Which I think might be more like it.

At long last, Gali's gallery debut(s)! Moving, moving, moving

By Joy A. Kennelly

I'm very happy to announce that Gali Rotstein of the Ken and Gali Rotstein's has been accepted to not one, but five gallerys! Of course, she can't accept all five offers, but it was so nice to see her work validated by so many fine gallery directors.

Each one was unique in what they were known for and specialized in which made it extremely difficult to narrow the choice down. Especially when she liked the people so much. However, at this point in her art career it was important to select a path that will lead her in the ultimate direction she wants to have.

So! I'm happy to announce that you will finally be able to see Gali's work for yourself up close and personal at the infamous Bergamot Station's very own world renowned Lois Lambert Gallery whose director, Lois Lambert herself, is known internationally as an authority on functional art. The other name for the gallery is Gallery of Functional Art or GFA. It's the perfect place for Gali to debut because her artwork fits so well in this genre.

Mark your calendars now because Gali's art debut and grand art opening with GFA as part of Group '08 is Saturday, January 12, 2008 and will run through March 9, 2008.  She's thrilled to be part of the prestigious Bergamot Station and Lois Lambert's Gallery as her Los Angeles debut for Requiem for a Housewife.

The other announcement I am able to finally make is that Sara Cannon, curator of the equally prestigious Los Angeles Municipal Art Gallery, went to visit Gali's home studio awhile back, saw her work and said, (a direct quote) "I really like her exuberance and talent....I would like to show her when I get the right show." Isn't that wonderful news too? Sara's gallery is strictly for exhibition which is why there is no conflict with GFA. Oh, the things I'm learning about the art world.

There are some really cool galleries in town and Gali was accepted by three others, which out of courtesy I will keep nameless until the time is right. Just know they have excellent taste in art and I may be sharing a new artist's work with them soon which I'm sure they'll love just as much. Then I'll be talking them up too!

In the meantime let's just bask in the light of Gali's glow as a successful new emerging LA artist, shall we? Like I said about Esther, you think your friends are talented, but worry you're biased when they're your friends. That's why it's nice to have outside confirmation of what you believe in your heart to be true of their talent.

I knew when I visited Gali the first night we met to begin working together and a piece of her art made me cry because it was so stunning, I was looking at true talent. Now to go conquer the rest of the world with her art!

She's really great to work with because she comes up with great ideas and contacts which help make my job easier. Same with Audrey and her Back to College for A Day seminar series. However, they know I work hard with what and who I know, and how I do it too!:)

Audrey's a real go-getter too and I believe that all her hard work is going to pay off! I hope you will consider attending at least one lecture on Saturday, October 27, 2007 and enjoy the intellectual stimulation! I've heard keeping your brain moving helps fight off Alzheimer's which is a good thing.

Otherwise, on a personal front, I'm moving this weekend. Never in all my years of renting apartments have I EVER met such an apt nazi as the lady I met today. You would have thought I was trying to buy the building with all the documentation she requested. NEVER, EVER, EVER have I had a building manager request two years of tax returns, my bank deposits for the past year, proof of payment, $200 deposit etc, etc, you would have thought I had to give my firstborn son the way she was going at it.

Needless to say, I didn't end up applying there after all. I had jumped through some of the hoops, but give me a frickin' break lady. Some of this is none of your damn business. Six months records should be sufficient and if it's not, then I'm not meant to be there. Can you imagine what she would have been like as a landlord? Maybe she's had bad experiences with other beach rentals, but I've moved A LOT in my past and I've NEVER met someone like her.

I point blank asked her if the owner of the building would rather have the apartment sit empty for a month while she tried to find someone else who would give her all the data she was requesting to which she became indignant. I doubt anyone else has ever challenged her like I did, but I hate record keeping and it was a big pain in the tukis just to get together everything I got for her to begin with.

Oh well, I'm in a new Bible Study presented by Crown Financial  which was offered through King's Harbor Church  which will hopefully get that area of my business and life under control. Tonight was cool because Pastor Henry lead the group and I've never met him before. Very nice, caring man. Good people in the group too.

One of my friends from Bay Cities was so excited to hear I was taking this class because it so changed her life so many years back. Another friend of mine had taken it too and everyone speaks so highly of the way you learn and grow through doing it. I can't wait!

I had a pretty rough summer with my back injury and hardly working as a result, but God was faithful and provided for me. Now to get my life back on track in more ways than one. Speaking of churches, I'm singing this Sunday at the 9:30am and 11:00am service at Bay Cities Community Church's Lomita Campus located at  2043 Lomita Blvd, Lomita, CA 90717.

This is a rare Southern California appearance of me singing so you better get there early or the crowds will be overwhelming. JUST KIDDING! I don't think many people even know I sing to be honest. I haven't sung in a while, but I'm looking forward to it, albeit a little nervous. Would love to see your smiling faces in the audience if you feel so inspired to drive on down and check out the Lomita campus.

This particular church building has such a cool story (which to make sure is accurate you'll have to verify with Pastor Jim.) Apparently a few years back Jim was approached by a missions organization who saw his vision to reach the people of the South Bay and felt lead to donate their entire property of 3.5 acres including the buildings and everything to Bay Cities as a gift!

Can you imagine the value of that property and just receiving it as a gift? Well, they did! Apparently the church needed some work which men from the church helped rebuild. What a labor of love. Now it's so beautiful you feel like you're in a Beverly Hills home it's so pretty  - beautiful tile work, modern fixtures, gorgeous, spacious kitchen, and a great community space.

The grounds are beautiful too with lots of grass for children who attend the little school to play on. I was blown away as he was telling me the story. Now I have to be honest, my heart belongs to the Redondo Beach church because that's where my sister had her wedding reception. I have fond memories of that time. Plus, a lot of the friends I've made attend those services at the Redondo Beach location at the cute women's community center (located at 400 S. Broadway, Redondo Beach, CA 90277.) which we call church.

However, I've decided that it's important to be a servant and do what the pastor's wife asks of you when I'm not really singing that often. Plus, the beauty part is that now I'm able to sleep in a little longer because we have a later call time. God knew I'm going to be exhausted from moving (where is to be determined, but come hell or high water I plan to leave this current place on Sunday to keep my commitment to leave and allow the new renters to move in in a timely fashion.)

They're so eager to move here they had mail sent here already and also came by to measure the space earlier this week - back off babes! Now that I'm moving stuff into the living room to make it easier to move, my place seems spacious! My Dad was very sweet and came to help me break down a big piece of furniture to make it easier to transport today. I love my Dad. He's a good man. I have good neighbors too. Two have offered to help me move which is so kind.

I'm going to miss all my fun neighbors, but am hopeful they will still come to my parties and invite me to theirs, or at least say hi once in a while.  I had a good run here, but it's time to do something different to allow me to save money.

I'm beginning to hate to move. First for me. Normally I enjoy the excitement, but now... Enough! Apparently they did a study once of people who've traveled a lot as children and it's very common to move a lot, have multiple jobs and lots of variety in their lives. However now, maybe God is slowing me down or something.

So, all in all, a good day overall. I'm thrilled for Gali and the potential for her career. She's worked very hard for a very long time and deserves this acceptance. Better buy her art now because pretty soon you're not going to be able to afford it - mark my words!

And with that, good night.

Way to go Esther! Great write-up in Backstage

By Joy A. Kennelly

Kudos to my friend Esther and her play, Random Sharp Objects. She just received a fair and balanced review by Backstage that validates my opinion of her acting ability too! Check it out here.

Sometimes you wonder if you like something because it's yours friends thing, but no, this time I was right. Esther is extremely talented! I think she should consider turning her play into a short animated film. It has all the elements of a Fat Albertesque piece.

Maybe she can connect with the Wayans Brothers because they've produced an animation series in the past and have the hook-up.

I'm tired, but when I saw that review I just had to share. Way to go Esther! I'm so glad and proud of you! I love the fact she gives voice to the issues of her past in acting whereas I'm doing it through writing. The truth shall set us free!

And with that, a good night.

Back to College for a Day, Harvest Home, my adoption story, A Window Between Worlds, Gali Rotstein

By Joy A. Kennelly

Yesterday was very serendipitous to say the least. I did more media relations for Back to College for A Day --which is coming along nicely, thank you for asking. The Washington Post reporter I pitched today found my press release very interesting, but was hoping for a more local angle.

I'm hoping she'll see this as a national trend and pick up the story regardless of the fact this educational program takes place on the West Coast. The courses offered in Audrey's program are perfect for that paper - politics, law, health, media.

I've hit a number of newspapers and online calendar listings which should help generate interest. We've also decided to allow people to sign up for individual seminars in case you can't stay for the entire day.

Here's the info again in case you've missed it taken from my posting on Experience LA:                                                                                                                                                                                    Back to College For A Day

Admission: Special introductory rate of $125 covers four lectures, lunch and parking. Individual seminars available at $40 each includes parking.                                                                               

Services: Lunch is included in the program fee                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Description: Back to College For A Day debuts Saturday, October 27, 2007 from 9:30am – 4:00pm at Mt. St. Mary’s College – Chalon campus located at 12001 Chalon Rd., Los Angeles, CA 90049.

Back To College For A Day features renowned speakers, compelling topics and like-minded people who share the joy of learning and want to enjoy a day of intellectual and social stimulation. Special introductory rate of $125 covers four lectures presented by well-respected professors from Pomona, UCLA, and Pitzer, lunch and parking. Individual seminars offered including parking for $40.00. Advance registration required.

Lectures include:

1) Bias in the Media: Are You Getting the Real Story? - Tim Groeling, UCLA. Winner of the Copenhaven Award for Teaching with Technology; Author of When Politicians Attack: Party Cohesion and the Media.

2) The Coming Pandemic: Why Influenza is a Major Threat - Ralph Robinson, UCLA. Nominated three times for the UCLA Luckman Distinguished Teaching Award for Outstanding Lecturer; Consultant on bioterrorism for KPCC’s "Life and Times" and other news broadcasts.

3) The U.S. Congress in the American Political System - David Menefee-Libey, Pomona College. Four-time recipient of Pomona’s Wig Distinguished Teaching Award; Author of The Triumph of Campaign-Centered Politics.

4) Police States Past and Present – Andre Wakefield, Pitzer College. Author The Disordered Police State.

For more information visit www.backtocollegeforaday.com or call (818) 704-4207                                                                                                      
What's really nice about working with Audrey is that she really respects my expertise and advice which is so refreshing. She gave me the biggest compliment today by telling me she found me highly ethical and honest which I take as a huge compliment because that is something I strive to be in all areas of my life.

It's gotten me in trouble sometimes because sometimes it would be easier to lie, but I just find I'd rather take the fall-out by being honest than worry what I've said that's incorrect down the road. It's just a simpler, nicer way to live.

Okay, enough self-congratulations. What else was I going to say before I run out to my meeting. Actually, I can say audition since I'm not working with any actors right now and have finished my other client work. I think it's fun to audition because it's outside my normal realm, it gets me out of my head, and it's fun to be using other sides of who I am.

I'm still a publicist first and foremost, but this is something I do because it brings me happiness. When it becomes work, then I'll probably quit. What's fun to realize is that a lot of billionaires have fun doing what they do too! Branson of Virgin Airlines builds businesses because it's fun and challenging for him.

I feel the same way when I begin to work with a new client. I love the challenge of breaking them in to the media, establishing their brand, and making their press releases newsworthy. I love seeing my clients develop confidence as they see the results of our efforts together. I also love to see them move up in their careers or aspirations because of my help and guidance. Lastly, I love working as a team to see goals turn into fruition. That brings me a lot of pleasure.

So, as I was saying, yesterday, did some media relations work, went to an appointment and then met a friend for lunch over at Rose Cafe in Venice. I haven't eaten there since 1999 or so and forgot how cute and cozy it is. The food is good too.

We caught up on what we've been doing in the year that we've seen each other and she's just glowing with happiness at having found her true path in life as a Theta Healer/Teacher. (Sorry if that's not accurate Moira, I'm in a rush and am not sure what your exact title is.) She's like a whole new person she's so happy! I'm happy for her too!

She's moving so offered to introduce me to her landlord and gave me the address. When we parted I thought I'd drive by to see the place and see my old neighborhood, but got lost and never did see it. Just as well, I ended up driving by a building that houses A Window Between Worlds. This non-profit teaches women and children in battered women's shelters art as a healing tool. They're all over country now which is great!

I had volunteered there while pregnant and just had to see if they were still around. When I rang the bell, it was indeed the same place and they welcomed me to join them even though they were all at lunch.

Walking up the stairs to the main office area brought back a wave of emotions. I had volunteered there 9 years ago. It was there that I surrendered to the decision that since I couldn't find a family I liked well enough to raise my son that maybe God wanted me to raise him myself. I would be a single parent.

It wasn't what I wanted at all to do, but felt I had to just resign myself to that fate. The epiphany came while I had been participating as a "model" for A Window Between World's TV news coverage they had arranged to showcase how the guided art programs are run and help women. All of sudden, during the demonstration I burst into tears and began sobbing.

It was like a huge dam had broken and all the sorrow, pain, and heartache of this entire pregnancy just came gushing forth. Cathy, the director, was very kind and gentle with me and lead me to a quiet place to journal my thoughts and feelings to gain composure. I don't know if they ever ran that news cast or not, but I was amazed at how the art lesson had been so healing to me personally.

As I journaled I just turned over all my pain and confusion about my son and just accepted that God's will might be for me to raise my son after all. At the time I didn't know I was having a boy, but I did know I wanted my child to grow up with all the benefits of a two-parent, stable household which I didn't feel I would be able to provide at that time.

Many women are single parents and I admire them. I just know for me, it wasn't a path I was ready or able to travel down. That day, after surrendering my will to God's will, I walked back to Harvest Home and there was a package waiting for me from the couple I would ultimately choose to adopt and raise my son.

All the women living in the maternity home with me were all involved in my search process by this time because I'd been looking for almost six months. When I opened the package, there was the soon-to-be adoptive couple's application, lots of pictures, and a video they had created to introduce themselves to me.

All the women clamored for me to watch it so we gathered in the living room and began to watch together. I think that day I wished I had more privacy because everyone kept telling me this couples the one, they're perfect for you. I didn't want to believe it. I was prepared now to raise my child and now the idea of adoption seemed real scary.

However, I knew this couple was the one when I spoke to them both on the phone and they answered all my list of questions. And as a journalism minor in college, I had a long list of questions. I asked to speak to references and spoke to them too. I spoke to the adoptive mom's family members.

I then called a very good friend at the time and asked her advice. She prayed with me and encouraged me to accept this as a reality. I knew it needed to be done, but it was hard now that it was so close to Eli being born.

I found this couple one month before Eli was born. It's a miracle that they passed the home inspection in such a short time. That's why when people are so amazed that celebrities seem to dash right through adoption issues, I know it can be done. The couple who adopted my son weren't wealthy, just good people who would be loving, honest, caring parents.

I think people who judge adoptive parent's suitability for this role can sense when the situation is right. God moves too! When I first began searching for adoptive parents, I sent letters out to all the adoptive agencies I knew around the country asking them for parents who would fit the criteria of what I was looking for.

When I had exhausted that route, I sent out letters to all my friends at various churches around the country asking them to refer good people to my attorney for consideration. It was through one of those letters that a couple attending my friend's church in Texas remembered Amy & Jeff, my adoptive couple, from a Bible Study they had attended with them years back.

They contacted Amy and told her about me. She called Jeff who was doing military duty in Florida and said, "How'd you like to adopt a child?" Now they were content with being childless, but there was always a part of them that had wanted a child. They knew that when the time was right, God would bring them a child.

There was nothing physically wrong with either of them, they just weren't able to conceive naturally. Rather than go through in vitro, they just waited on God. Jeff is a tall, handsome African-American man, and Amy is a petite, attractive blonde woman. I had had a vision of both of them (faceless, but their other physical characteristics very vivid in my head) when I was sending out letters around the country which I normally never have.

However, I do have very vivid dreams! This morning I dreamt that a very handsome, dark almost Italian looking man gave me the best bear hug ever when he saw me. It was hard to wake up after that dream!

Back to my story. Okay, so Amy and Jeff are contacted out of the blue to adopt a child they've never met and have never prepared for. That's what is so amazing to me! There were so many couples I read their profiles whose whole lives revolved around wanting children in their lives. Amy & Jeff were content either way which I really liked that about them.

I didn't want a couple who would idealize my child because that puts a lot of pressure on a child. I also wanted an inter-racial couple because I knew Eli would have an easier time of it if he didn't feel even more out of place in a family that really didn't look like him. What's so weird is that Eli looks so much like Amy and Jeff people never even think to ask if he's adopted which I think is great!

I really couldn't ask for better adoptive parents. They're secure in our relationship and their relationship with Eli. We get along really well. I love them and am so happy I found them. God is good!

That's why going back to Harvest Home this past weekend and seeing what my life was like only 9 years ago; then finding A Window Between Worlds again after all the time; driving down my old street and looking for places there was so mind-blowing. It's like God feels I'm ready to deal with all this emotion and can move beyond it now.

What was so interesting about visiting A Window Between Worlds yesterday is that the walls are covered with art and now I represent Gali Rotstein, a fine artist! Never in a million years would I ever have said my life would lead to art, but here I am.

I guess working with Gali is another way to heal because she appreciates and respects my work when some others haven't in the past. That is important to me with the people I choose to work with. I need to feel like they will ultimately become friends because I look at each relationship in a long-term fashion and I only like working with friends!

I've tried working for people who don't want to be friends and it's just too disheartening and defeating. I can't do it. My work is part of my life and my life is part of my work so it has to mesh. So, there you have it.

I need to run, but thanks for stopping by... More client news soon!

Classic Rock Sing-a-long October 20 - doesn't this sound like a kick?

This is from my Brunching Ladies list - doesn't it sound like an absolute blast? Try to come out! This is from Julia who is one of star copywriters on the list.       

        CLASSIC ROCK SINGALONG OCT. 20          

Hey Ladies,

My husband is hosting his semi-regular Classic Rock Singalong Saturday, Oct. 20, at 9:30 p.m., at the M Bar (Fountain and Vine; $5).  If you like to toss back a few and sing really loud to your favorite songs with a bunch of other loud, soused singers, this is the event for you. 

IT'S NOT KARAOKE; it's an actual singalong - lyric sheets will be provided.  A band of seasoned pros
and amateurs alike will be onstage (the $5 admission will go toward making sure they are inebriated as well), and volunteers can lead songs if they want to, but no one solos.  The band knows about 50 songs - some of which are more "Don't You Want Me, Baby" than classic, but whatever. 

Please let me know if you want to go and I'll look out for you.  If you want to lead a song, drop a note to Simon Glickman at Editorial Emergency. More info below.

XO,
Julia (Rubiner)

"The best party of the year so far" - Tony

"About as much fun as one can have with one's clothes on" - Josh

"I had a decidedly Kim Carnes-ish voice the next day from all that
caterwauling ... so much fun!" - Alice

After a couple of epic house parties, The Classic Rock Singalong makes its club debut at M Bar (1253 N. Vine, Hollywood) on Sat., Oct. 20 at 10pm.  Far from karaoke or American Idol, the Singalong puts the focus squarely on the audience - and a treasury of great pop tunes from the past 50 years.  Will we sing songs by the Beatles, the Rolling Stones, Neil Young, David Bowie and the Doors? Absolutely.  But our definition of "Classic Rock" is VERY inclusive - we also love Journey, Bon Jovi, Human League, Cheap Trick, Prince, "Jesus Christ Superstar," Patsy Cline and Joan Jett. 

With a core band of fabulous musicians and an array of guest singers leading the proceedings, it's a
night to lift glasses and voices with gusto.  Previous Singalong events have featured musicians who've played with Paul McCartney, Brian Wilson, Stevie Wonder, Tom Waits and other greats; a crew of fabulous guests is planned for our M Bar splashdown. 

Be there, bring your friends, and prepare to wail!  

Crosswalk devotional by Melanie Chitwood - it's so good!

I just read this story written by Author/Speaker Melanie Chitwood and thought it was very appropriate for my life right now. I hope it encourages you too. This blog post is from my daily free devotional from Crosswalk (meaning I haven't written it.)

Just an aside. I've just found our cities new country station and got to tell you, forgot how much I love country music! It's got me in such a good mood. I know, corny as all get out, but what can I say? I have eclectic music taste. Hope those of you who hit the Eagle Rock Music Festival had fun!

Back to what I was saying before... (isn't that such a female trait to carry on multiple thoughts at once? LOL!)

A lot of times the devotionals apply to women with children and those who are married which I just accept and realize I can learn from because it's interesting to see what married women struggle with seeing as I'm single. This story was one of those.

All about being gentle in your marriage relationship. I want that quality in ALL my relationships. God help me to become more and more like you please. Say a prayer for me if you think about it too ok? I'm ready to meet my husband. God, are you listening?:)

I've been good! I'm ready for my life partner. What do you think God? I aint getting any younger. LOL But got to say, am getting better (in certain ways - just lost 4.4 lbs going to Weight Watchers for a week! It's time to shed the pounds and get back to my old self.):) Time for discipline and commitment like Chris Howard kept saying. I'm listening Chris, I'm listening! Now to apply it! (whoops, there I go again. Back to the devotional...)

I've just copied and pasted the entire thing so you can see if it's something you might be interested in signing up for too. I believe you can just click through and sign up somewhere on the site. I don't remember how I found it, but I love it! Really gets my morning going on the right track.

Sending all of you lots of love and gentleness! Have a great day. I plan to.

God bless you! Now, without further ado here's today's devotional - enjoy the read!

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October 9, 2007

 A Gentle Breeze or a Sledge Hammer

By Melanie Chitwood

"But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control." Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT)

Devotion:

Gentleness is part of being feminine - part of being a woman, and God made us distinctly different from men on purpose! God wants us to bring our gentleness to our marriages, to love our husbands with the tender love of God. Our tenderness woos our husbands and allows them to be vulnerable in return.

We can show our husbands gentleness in many ways--a soft touch, a sweet smile, a kind deed, and a caring tone of voice. We show gentleness when we are considerate, patient, understanding, forgiving and not easily offended or irritated.

Think about the opposite of gentle--harsh, pushy, insistent, demanding, caustic, and argumentative. Are you more likely to respond to your husband in gentleness or harshness?

Sometimes I think we fear being gentle because we fear we'll appear weak or vulnerable. We see in Scripture that God is both a mighty warrior and a tender Shepherd. In Isaiah 40:10 and 11 we read, "See, the Sovereign LORD comes with power ...He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart" (NIV).

In the same way a woman can be both gentle toward her husband and strong. Consider the ways of a mother with her child; she is the one who scoops her child into her arms and hugs him tighter than tight, and she's also the one who is fiercely protective of her child's well-being.

As I was discussing the idea of a wife being gentle, an acquaintance shook his head and said, "My wife makes me think of the blows of a sledge hammer. There's nothing gentle about her. She's like a run-away bus and you just better get out of her way."

Let's practice the application steps below. Let's watch our marriages flourish as we practice being more like the caress of a gentle breeze rather than the blows of a sledge hammer.

Dear Lord, Thank You, Heavenly Father, that You are both a mighty Warrior and a tender Shepherd. Help me to be a wife who is both strong and gentle. Fill me with Your Spirit and make me gentle like You. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Related Resources:

What a Husband Needs from His Wife by Melanie Chitwood

For more on marriage issues visit the Growthtrac website

Do You Know Him?

 Application Steps: 

Enjoy God's quiet presence and tender love.

Don't let harshness become a bad habit. Begin to replace it with gentleness.

Practice patience.

Refrain from interrupting, correcting or nagging your husband.

Think before you speak. Do you really need to say what you're about to say?

Spend time with friends or family who have a gentle spirit and observe.

Reflections: 

How do you think being gentle helps your marriage? How does harshness hinder your marriage?

Do you have any fears about being gentle toward your husband? Be honest before the Lord and ask Him to give you His gentleness.

Power Verses: 

Proverbs 15: 1 "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (NAS)

Matthew 11:29, "'Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.'"(NIV)

 

Proverbs 31 Ministries

616-G, Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Matthews, NC 28105

www.Proverbs31.org

 

Britney Spears, Art party

By Joy A. Kennelly

Just caught Britney's new video and highlights. So glad to hear she's reconnecting with her mom and sister. She needs family right now more than ever. I think the radio station that was having people bid on when she was going to commit suicide was terrible and deserves to have a heavy fine from the FCC (if that's possible.)

Why do people think it's funny to laugh at another's troubles? Yes they're famous, but does that make them any less human? I've never understood that attitude. Here's an interesting LA Times article with their take on what's happening. And this one's my favorite - Jimmy Kimmel's take on Chris Crocker, Britney's Super Fan, and his video. Too funny.

I do think Jimmy's girlfriend Sarah was a little snide in her riff, but that's old news so who cares right?

Otherwise, life is good. The art party last night was very eclectic and electric - lots of interesting types of people I don't normally see out and about. Got some good advice and a great Kerastase hair product too. Can't wait to get my hair done! You should have been there.

I'm bummed because my friend Vince has canceled his party due to too many Halloween and Octoberfest parties. Oh well. Maybe I can finally catch a movie! Been dying to see the new Jodi Foster film, The Brave One, and a bunch of others like Into the Wild.

My friend Shana saw Into the Wild and says it's amazing. The music by Eddie Vedder really sets the tone and the cinematography is stunning. I think Sean Penn is going to be the next Robert Redford type director if I go by what she described. Or the next greatest Sean Penn director!:)

So, that's all. I wish I could tell you more, but there's a lot of stuff going on behind the scenes, but until  confirmed in writing...mum's the word.

Hope you're having a good one!

Here's my Los Angeles Convention & Visitors Bureau case study

By Joy A. Kennelly

This past summer I was hired by the Los Angeles Convention & Visitors Bureau (LA Inc) to coordinate hotel getaway promotions for Ralphs' large-scale summer promotion.

This will give you an idea of the scope of the promotion:

"LA INC. will be launching a new website May 2007. The address for this website is www.seemyLA.com. A new feature of the website will be a section called Gateway LA which offers themed vacation packages centered on some of LA’s most popular attractions and activities.

From June 2007 to September 2007, approximately 16 weeks, LA INC. will be conducting an integrated consumer advertising campaign targeting mainly residents of the greater San Diego metropolitan area to take advantage of quick getaway vacation to LA. This multi-tiered campaign will drive visitation to our new website and will encompass the following marketing channels: television advertising, on-line advertising, radio advertising and print advertising.

TV / Cable Broadcast Advertising

June - July 2007

                                    San Diego County

2,455 Target Rating Points

87.8% Reach

28 x Frequency

30.9 Million Impressions

On-Line Advertising

June - September 2007

                                     San Diego County, Orange County,
                                     San Bernardino/Riverside County, Oxnard/Ventura

Search

Display

Contextual

Email

                                    21 Million Impressions

                                     Radio Advertising

                                     June - July 2007

San Diego County

13 Million Impressions

 AAA Publication Westways

June 2007

                                    Southern California

3.7 Million Circulation

4 Page LA Special Insert

                                    Ralphs Overview: 

                                    392 Stores

                                    5   Million Weekly Customers

                                 Timing:

                                    July 4, 2007 (Wednesday) – July 24, 2007 (Tuesday)

                                    3 Weeks

                             Audience: 

                                    General

                                    Female 35 Years and Above

Strategy:    Promote www.seemyLA.com.

Promote the Getaway LA vacation packages.

Promote diversity of LA visitor experience.

 Call to Action: Visit www.seemyLA.com to plan your Getaway LA vacation.

So here's my part in this wonderful promotion. I was hired to contact 100 hotels and collect and coordinate their summer getaway packages for display on the LA Inc website and accomplished this goal within a month.

Here's the pitch letter I sent out via email to announce my part in this promotion which received a great response:

Hello,  

I'm a freelance travel writer hired by LA Inc to describe the summer promotions you are offering at your location. I've worked in the travel industry before and understand how busy you can be which is why I've   put together this introduction with all the details I need from you to hopefully make it easy for both of us to help each other.

From June 2007 to September 2007, approximately 16 weeks, LA INC. will be conducting an integrated consumer advertising campaign targeting residents of the greater San Diego metropolitan area to take advantage of quick getaway vacations to LA. 

This multi-tiered campaign will drive business and will encompass the following marketing channels:  television advertising, on-line advertising, radio advertising and print advertising.

Some of the current information we need from you to include your involvement in our Web site promotion are the following:

Hotel Package Details - Are you planning any special getaway packages for the summer? Suggestions include: Culture/Live Performances/Museums, Family, Attractions, Gourmet, Casual Fashion, Dining, Relaxation, Romantic, Dining & Entertainment, Pet Friendly, Environmental friendly, Celebrity Insider, Adventure, Body Beautiful/Spa

Hotel Package Price - what is the price?

Hotel Package Disclaimers - any black-out dates, or special issues?

Hotel Photos - any or all would be great of the following:
       Interior
       Exterior
       Room
       Pool
       Spa
       Restaurant
       Bar
       Other

I will be calling you to follow up as well. I look forward to communicating with you and helping you bring business to your location!

Here's a list of every hotel I sent that pitch letter to and the promotions I coordinated. Not every hotel participated for various reasons, but we had an above average response rate:

WICKED

Beverly Garland's Holiday Inn Universal Studios Ask for special AAA rate. Located in the heart of North Hollywood, next to Universal Studios Hollywood/Citywalk and only a metro stop over to the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Tula's California Cafe and The Coffee Room Splash Bar. Free wireless Internet available in all areas of the hotel. Free shuttle service to Universal Studios Hollywood/CityWalk. Outdoor swimming pool, sauna, tennis court and kid's playground.

Crowne Plaza Beverly Hills $185 Includes continental breakfast. Ideally located half way between Venice and the Pantages Theater, our hotel is also walking distance to Rodeo Drive and a great array of restaurants — from fancy to family friendly.

Fairmont Miramar Hotel Santa Monica From $359. Play in LA, but stay in the beachside city of Santa Monica. The "Westside WICKED" package at The Fairmont Miramar Hotel includes a full American breakfast for two, overnight parking, two exclusive tickets to the show and a limited-edition WICKED chocolate box amenity.

Hilton Los Angeles Airport WICKED Packages: $250 (without limo service) $600 (with limo service). Includes 16th-floor junior suite; access to the Executive Towers Lounge, which offers an evening reception and morning continental breakfast; VIP access to ticket reservations for WICKED; and transportation courtesy of Broomstick Limousine to and from the show with champagne and WICKED-covered strawberries.

Hollywood Roosevelt Hotel – A Thompson Hotel Starting at $209. The Hollywood Roosevelt Hotel, just blocks away from the Pantages Theatre, has captured the essence of original Hollywood elegance and fused it with the desires of LA's modern-day scene makers. Two highly acclaimed restaurants, a pair of exclusive nightspots and an intimate spa garden with a heated Olympic-size swimming pool, make the hotel a perfect destination for your WICKED getaway.

Los Angeles Airport Marriott $119. Includes breakfast for two and free parking for one night.

Mosaic Hotel Beverly Hills $625 (plus tax). Night of show. Includes accomodation in our preferred luxury room; private town car transportation to and from the show; and breakfast for two.

Renaissance Hollywood Hotel $306. Special package price per room, per night. Includes deluxe accomodations for two at the Reniassance Hollywood Hotel; full breakfast buffet for two at Twist, the hotel's restaurant; discount card from Hollywood & Highland Center; overnight valet parking; and shuttle pass to Pantages Theatre for two.

Sheraton Universal $199 regular room. $299 executive room. Rooms include breakfast and hors d'oeuvres in the club lounge. Overlooking Universal Studios Hollywood, our 20-story tower offers fantastic views of the studios and the San Fernando Valley. Three-story poolside wing offers room with balconies or direct pool access.

Sofitel Los Angeles $455 package price (plus tax). One night's stay in a superior room for two; overnight valet parking; continental breakfast for two at Simon LA; VIP access to ticket reservations for WICKED; WICKED amenity delivered to room upon check-in.

Sportsmen's Lodge Hotel Starting at $149. Minutes to WICKED at the Pantages Theatre, Beverly Hills and all major attractions. Free shuttle to Universal Studios Hollywood. Free hotel parking. Heated olympic pool. 200 remodeled rooms.

Wilshire Grand Los Angeles $169. Includes executive-level room, tax, parking and deluxe continental breakfast for two in the executive lounge. Located in the "heart of downtown Los Angeles" with door-to-door subway access to Hollywood Blvd., Universal Studios Hollywood, the Pantages Theatre and WICKED!

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Cultural

Millennium Biltmore Hotel Includes classic-room accommodations and two tickets to the Museum of Contemporary Art. Complimentary roundtrip transportation to the museum in our luxurious towncar is available to guests booking this package.

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Attractions & Entertainment

Renaissance Hollywood Hotel Two nights of deluxe accommodations for two at the Renaissance Hollywood Hotel; (2) one-day admission tickets to Universal Studios Hollywood SM; breakfast for two daily at Twist, the hotel's restaurant; overnight self parking with in-and-out privileges for two days; discount card from Hollywood & Highland Center, adjacent to the hotel; and Universal CityWalk® savings booklet.

Renaissance Hollywood Hotel Deluxe accommodations for two at the Renaissance Hollywood Hotel; breakfast buffet for two at Twist, the hotel's California-eclectic restaurant; discount card from Hollywood & Highland Center; and overnight valet parking. Package does not include tickets. For ticket purchase information, visit www.ticketmaster.com or call 213-480-3232. For information on upcoming shows at the Kodak Theatre, visit www.kodaktheatre.com or call 213-480-3232.

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel Traditional room, internet, buffet breakfast and Metro Day pass (for each day the package is purchased). This package starts at $185.

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel Deluxe room accommodations (larger corner room) and two adult tickets to Universal Studios (tickets include come back next day for free) and complimentary hotel parking for $235.00.

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel You're cast for an action-packed getaway starting from just $235. It's sure to be a memorable motion picture with two adults tickets to Universal Studios. For a limited time, visit the park on the second day FREE. Package includes: * Deluxe Accommodations * Two Days Admission for Two to Universal Studios Hollywood * Complimentary Hotel Parking

Sportsmen's Lodge Hotel The price is $259 + tax per day. The package includes Overnight Poolview accomodations, 2 tickets to Universal Studios Hollywood, Kids Goody Bag & 1 free kid's meal for each purchased adult meal daily. Additional tickets to Universal Studios can be purchased at the Hotel Front Desk.

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Family Fun

Burbank Airport Marriott Hotel & Convention Center Marriott wants to help families this summer carve out time for family fun. So when you book a big, comfortable room at a small, comfortable rate, the pizza, sodas, movies and internet are all on us. This weekend, or next weekend. Any weekend from now on until the kids go back to school. So families can have their pie (and eat it, too). Summer for Families Special from $164 - $194

California Health & Longevity Institute This summer, let Four Seasons help plan a special family vacation that will allow your family to reconnect and share memories to last a lifetime. The hotel's Kids and Teens for all Seasons program will keep the children entertained and enchanted while the adults are enjoying a leisurely swim in our heated indoor serenity pool or a rejuvenating treatment at the Spa. Includes luxurious accommodations; in-room welcome amenity appropriate for children; complimentary access to kids and teens for all seasons (open Saturday, Sunday and selected holidays); one complimentary in-room children’s movie per each paid night. The Hotel's Kids and Teens For All Seasons program will keep the children entertained and enchanted while the adults are enjoying a leisurely swim in our heated indoor serenity pool or a rejuvenating treatment at the Spa. Includes: Luxurious accommodations In-room welcome amenity, appropriate for children's ages Complimentary access to Kids and Teens For All Seasons (open Saturday, Sunday and selected holidays) One complimentary in-room children's movie per each paid night.

Le Merigot A Jw Marriott Beach Hotel And Spa $1,250 per night Celebrate the joining of blended families with quality time for all! The package includes: welcome family amenity, two adjoining superior accommodations (based on availability), “Four hours of freedom” (babysitting for four hours, up to three children), couples massage, $60 credit toward cocktails and/or appetizers, in-room movie, gourmet popcorn and a guided family activity.

Manhattan Beach Marriott $149.00 Includes: "fun bucket" with toys and treats for children, one in-room moview and parking.

Millennium Biltmore Hotel Includes one-night classic-room accommodations (suitable for up to two adults and two children); American Girl amenities in-room, including use of an American Girl doll bed with turndown service, lip gloss, book and hand gel; complimentary valet parking; complimentary hotel transportation in our luxurious town car to the new American Girl Place store at the Grove; and breakfast for the kids at Smeraldi's Restaurant. Plus, guests booking this package can enter our quarterly drawing to win American Girl's 2007 Doll of the Year, Nicki!

Renaissance Hollywood Hotel Two nights of deluxe accommodations for two at the Renaissance Hollywood Hotel; (2) one-day admission tickets to Universal Studios Hollywood SM; breakfast for two daily at Twist, the hotel's restaurant; overnight self parking with in-and-out privileges for two days; discount card from Hollywood & Highland Center, adjacent to the hotel; and Universal CityWalk® savings booklet.

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel Deluxe room accommodations (larger corner room) and two adult tickets to Universal Studios (tickets include come back next day for free) and complimentary hotel parking for $235.00.

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel You're cast for an action-packed getaway starting from just $235. It's sure to be a memorable motion picture with two adults tickets to Universal Studios. For a limited time, visit the park on the second day FREE. Package includes: * Deluxe Accommodations * Two Days Admission for Two to Universal Studios Hollywood * Complimentary Hotel Parking

Sportsmen's Lodge Hotel The price is $259 + tax per day. The package includes Overnight Poolview accomodations, 2 tickets to Universal Studios Hollywood, Kids Goody Bag & 1 free kid's meal for each purchased adult meal daily. Additional tickets to Universal Studios can be purchased at the Hotel Front Desk.

Westin Bonaventure Hotel & Suites Children under 12 eat free. One complimentary Childs meal available from the children's menu in exclusively in Lakeview Bistro Restaurant. One Childs meal for each full adult meal purchased for up to 2 children. Lakeview Bistro is open for Breakfast or Lunch. Plus includes one complimentary movie per night.

Westin Bonaventure Hotel & Suites Special discount rates open for graduation weekends.  Includes guest room and overnight valet parking.

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Romance

Crowne Plaza Redondo Beach & Marina Hotel Come to the Riviera Redondo Beach and we will take you on a romantic adventure. Experience the prestigious Crowne Plaza Hotel with panoramic ocean views of Catalina Island and Malibu, sunset dinner specials and a memorable “gondola amore” tour through the bella enchanting Redondo and Portofino marinas. This package is popular for any special occasion, such as anniversaries and proposals, with rates beginning at $294. Inquire about package upgrades, including the ultimate luxury rendezvous ($1,450) with his and her spa massage, Jacuzzi suite and limo cruise of the spectacular Palos Verdes coastline ending with brunch at the fabulous Trump National Golf Club.

Four Seasons Hotel Los Angeles At Beverly Hills An exceptional spa experience awaits you at Four Seasons Hotel at Beverly Hills. Relax and restore your mind, body and soul in our world-class Spa, where?? treatment rooms and your choice of rejuvenating treatments await. Includes: Luxurious accommodations, Choice of one of the following 50-minute massages or facials per room, per day (excluding gratuity): • Swedish massage • Therapist's choice massage • Men's rescue facial • Pure results facial

Renaissance Hollywood Hotel Upgraded accommodations for two (executive bedroom); complimentary breakfast for two at Twist; chilled bottle of sparkling wine upon arrival; late check-out (based on availability).

Renaissance Hollywood Hotel Upgraded accommodations for two (Executive Bedroom) • Complimentary breakfast for two at Twist • Chilled bottle of sparkling wine upon arrival • Late check-out (based on availability)

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel Quality time is invited. A special rate starting from $179 makes it easy to reconnect. Make room in the heart of Downtown LA and fall in love all over again. * Bottle of Wine and Cheese Plate * Daily Full American Breakfast for Two * 4 p.m. Late Checkout

Westin Bonaventure Hotel & Suites Includes full American breakfast for 2 daily via room service or restaurant, champagne & strawberries, 4pm late check out

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Shopping

Millennium Biltmore Hotel Includes one-night classic-room accommodations (suitable for up to two adults and two children); American Girl amenities in-room, including use of an American Girl doll bed with turndown service, lip gloss, book and hand gel; complimentary valet parking; complimentary hotel transportation in our luxurious town car to the new American Girl Place store at the Grove; and breakfast for the kids at Smeraldi's Restaurant. Plus, guests booking this package can enter our quarterly drawing to win American Girl's 2007 Doll of the Year, Nicki!

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Dining

Le Merigot A Jw Marriott Beach Hotel And Spa $600 per night/double occupancy Who said Malibu is just for surfers? Wine aficionados will be glad to learn about Malibu’s burgeoning wine industry. Rosenthal Estate Wines recently began offering tours and tastings and Le Merigot sends its guests off in typical SoCal style. The package includes: 2006 Range Rover, superior guest room, a picnic basket with baguette and artisanal cheeses, a map to the Rosenthal Estate Wines’ tasting room and 4 p.m. check out. This package represents 25 percent cost savings.

Le Merigot A Jw Marriott Beach Hotel And Spa $840 per night/double occupancy This girlfriend getaway is designed for the gourmet-in-her. The package includes in-room wine amenity, superior guest room with two double beds, massage for two, gourmet dinner in Cezanne with wine pairings, map to Malibu’s Rosenthal Estate Wines Tasting Room, a chick flick and gourmet popcorn.

Manhattan Beach Marriott $179.00 Includes: Breakfast for two, parking and $25.00 gas card.

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Relaxation

Avalon Hotel The Los Angeles lifestyle has long been synonymous with poolside lingering and the joy of driving. Avalon Hotel in Beverly Hills will help you do both in high style. Soak up the SoCal sun in the retro charm of Avalon’s mid-century-modern pool terrace, then tool around the trendsetter’s playground of Beverly Hills in a swank Mercedes Benz. Enjoy a memorable meal in the see-and-be-seen milieu of Avalon's Blue on Blue restaurant. Overnight premium room accommodations; poolside snow cone cocktails for two, E-class Mercedes Benz rental and sun kit; dinner for two with entreé wine pairing. Rates from $569

California Health & Longevity Institute An exceptional spa experience awaits you at Four Seasons Hotel Westlake Village. Relax and restore your mind, body and soul in our world-class spa, where 28 treatment rooms and your choice of rejuvenating treatments await. Includes luxurious accommodations; choice of one of the following 50-minute massages or facials per room, per day (excluding gratuity): Swedish massage, therapist's choice massage, men's rescue facial or pure results facial.

Four Seasons Hotel Los Angeles At Beverly Hills An exceptional spa experience awaits you at Four Seasons Hotel at Beverly Hills. Relax and restore your mind, body and soul in our world-class Spa, where?? treatment rooms and your choice of rejuvenating treatments await. Includes: Luxurious accommodations, Choice of one of the following 50-minute massages or facials per room, per day (excluding gratuity): • Swedish massage • Therapist's choice massage • Men's rescue facial • Pure results facial

Le Merigot A Jw Marriott Beach Hotel And Spa This package includes Superior Guestroom accommodations and a Back, Shoulders, Ears and Chest Wax followed by a full-session Deep Tissue Massage. Spa Gratuity Included starts at $610.00 per Night

Le Merigot A Jw Marriott Beach Hotel And Spa $840 per night/double occupancy This girlfriend getaway is designed for the gourmet-in-her. The package includes in-room wine amenity, superior guest room with two double beds, massage for two, gourmet dinner in Cezanne with wine pairings, map to Malibu’s Rosenthal Estate Wines Tasting Room, a chick flick and gourmet popcorn.

Maison 140 Beverly Hills "Los Angeles lifestyle has long been synonymous with poolside lingering and the joys of driving. Maison 140 in Beverly Hills will help you do both in high style. Soak up the SoCal sun in the retro-charm of Avalon's mid -century-modern pool terrace, then tool around the trendsetter's playground of Beverly Hills in a swank Mercedes Benz. A memorable meal in the Mandarin-French mystique of Maison 140 will seal the deal. Overnight Accommadation In A Mandarin Room Poolside Kit: Includes Sunscreen, Magazines, Water, Lip Balm And After-Sun Care, Poolside Snow Cone Cocktails For Two At Avalon Hotel E-Class Mercedes Benz Rental With Airport Pick-Up And Drop-Off Breakfast For Two Early Check In 1pm Late Check Out 3pm

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Just For Fun

Avalon Hotel The Los Angeles lifestyle has long been synonymous with poolside lingering and the joy of driving. Avalon Hotel in Beverly Hills will help you do both in high style. Soak up the SoCal sun in the retro charm of Avalon’s mid-century-modern pool terrace, then tool around the trendsetter’s playground of Beverly Hills in a swank Mercedes Benz. Enjoy a memorable meal in the see-and-be-seen milieu of Avalon's Blue on Blue restaurant. Overnight premium room accommodations; poolside snow cone cocktails for two, E-class Mercedes Benz rental and sun kit; dinner for two with entreé wine pairing. Rates from $569

Beverly Garland's Holiday Inn Universal Studios Make reservation for the package and get additional PC points on top of all the additional amenities that comes with being a Priority Club Member.

Crowne Plaza Los Angeles Airport Avoid the hassle of traffic getting to the airport for that early flight by making use of our park and fly package, which includes a standard room for one night and parking for up to seven days. Additional nights of self parking at $12/night. Complimentary airport shuttle is also available. Rates starting from $139 plus tax.

Le Merigot A Jw Marriott Beach Hotel And Spa This package includes our Superior Guestroom accommodations and your choice of a Mercedes Benz C class or a 3 series BMW Rental Car or a Mercedes R350 (seats 6) no class guarantee except for SUV. Starts at $389.00 per night.

Le Merigot A Jw Marriott Beach Hotel And Spa This package includes our Superior Guestroom accommodations and your choice of a convertible Porsche Boxster or a BMW Z4 Roadster Rental Car for the ultimate L.A. adventure. $429.00 per night

Le Merigot A Jw Marriott Beach Hotel And Spa This package includes Superior Guestroom accommodations and a Toyota Prius Hybrid Synergy Rental Car. Starts at $359.00 per Night

Le Merigot A Jw Marriott Beach Hotel And Spa This package includes our Superior Guestroom accommodations, a full-session Swedish massage, a two hour Professional Surfing Lesson, and one Blue Crush graduation cocktail. Starts at $479.00 per night

Le Merigot A Jw Marriott Beach Hotel And Spa $600 per night/double occupancy Who said Malibu is just for surfers? Wine aficionados will be glad to learn about Malibu’s burgeoning wine industry. Rosenthal Estate Wines recently began offering tours and tastings and Le Merigot sends its guests off in typical SoCal style. The package includes: 2006 Range Rover, superior guest room, a picnic basket with baguette and artisanal cheeses, a map to the Rosenthal Estate Wines’ tasting room and 4 p.m. check out. This package represents 25 percent cost savings.

Le Merigot A Jw Marriott Beach Hotel And Spa $840 per night/double occupancy This girlfriend getaway is designed for the gourmet-in-her. The package includes in-room wine amenity, superior guest room with two double beds, massage for two, gourmet dinner in Cezanne with wine pairings, map to Malibu’s Rosenthal Estate Wines Tasting Room, a chick flick and gourmet popcorn.

Maison 140 Beverly Hills "Los Angeles lifestyle has long been synonymous with poolside lingering and the joys of driving. Maison 140 in Beverly Hills will help you do both in high style. Soak up the SoCal sun in the retro-charm of Avalon's mid -century-modern pool terrace, then tool around the trendsetter's playground of Beverly Hills in a swank Mercedes Benz. A memorable meal in the Mandarin-French mystique of Maison 140 will seal the deal. Overnight Accommadation In A Mandarin Room Poolside Kit: Includes Sunscreen, Magazines, Water, Lip Balm And After-Sun Care, Poolside Snow Cone Cocktails For Two At Avalon Hotel E-Class Mercedes Benz Rental With Airport Pick-Up And Drop-Off Breakfast For Two Early Check In 1pm Late Check Out 3pm

Manhattan Beach Marriott $159.00    Includes:  2 rounds of golf with pull cart and clubs, breakfast, parking and accommodations in a golf view room.

Millennium Biltmore Hotel Includes one-night classic-room accommodations (suitable for up to two adults and two children); American Girl amenities in-room, including use of an American Girl doll bed with turndown service, lip gloss, book and hand gel; complimentary valet parking; complimentary hotel transportation in our luxurious town car to the new American Girl Place store at the Grove; and breakfast for the kids at Smeraldi's Restaurant. Plus, guests booking this package can enter our quarterly drawing to win American Girl's 2007 Doll of the Year, Nicki!

Mosaic Hotel Beverly Hills A Mercedes sports Sedan or Mini Cooper S and a room at the Mosaic Hotel Beverly Hills. Complimentary airport pick up with your car from LAX or Burbank. Rates start at $400 for a Luxury Room,$420 for a Preferred Luxury or $650 for a One Bedroom Suite.

Mosaic Hotel Beverly Hills Package includes limo transfer to and from LAX, a bottle of Dom Perignon and gourmet chocolates upon arrival, dinner reservations at the top restaurants in town. Breakfast for two daily and of course an Aston Martin Vantage to drive. We'll also include a debit card for $500.00 to help with expenses. The package will require a two night minimum and include our one bedroom suite for $1,700 per night based on double occupancy.

Omni Los Angeles Hotel Ladies can get their glam on through their senses with a complimentary women’s sensation bar, which includes a “chick-flick” DVD, wine and chocolates, lip masque and glosses and a girlfriend’s tarot card kit. The “Get Your Glam On” package also offers an advance concierge call to arrange additional services such as: in-room hair/makeup team for styling before hitting the town; limo ride to local hot spots; shopping recommendations; and spa treatments.

Omni Los Angeles Hotel Guys can get their game on and enliven their senses with a complimentary men’s Sensation Bar, which includes a sports-focused DVD, a rock ’n’ roll CD, the “art of shaving” travel kit and a local micro-brewed beer with gourmet chips. An advance call from the concierge enables guys to customize their stay at an additional cost, providing items such as: poker cards, chips and dice; bar with private bartender/mixologist; limo ride to local hot spots; tickets to a local sporting venue; and reservations for tee-times at local golf courses.

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel Triple the fun and feel good about where you are and who you’re with. The Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel extends a special AAA rate starting from $135 and a $20 credit. Ease into the comfort and enjoy a sense of satisfaction. * $20 credit per stay. * Complimentary room upgrade, subject to availability. * 2:00 PM late checkout, subject to availability. * Special AAA room rates starting from $135.

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel High fives are invited. Stay with us after your favorite sporting events Downtown. Catch some ZZZs on our Sweet Sleeper Bed and be on the receiving end for free parking, breakfast and bar appetizers. Fans can’t get enough of this four-pack. * Breakfast for Two * $20 Team LA Card * Complimentary Bar Appetizer * Complimentary Parking

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Room & Breakfast

Burbank Airport Marriott Hotel & Convention Center Marriott wants to help families this summer carve out time for family fun. So when you book a big, comfortable room at a small, comfortable rate, the pizza, sodas, movies and internet are all on us. This weekend, or next weekend. Any weekend from now on until the kids go back to school. So families can have their pie (and eat it, too). Summer for Families Special from $164 - $194

Manhattan Beach Marriott $159.00    Includes:  2 rounds of golf with pull cart and clubs, breakfast, parking and accommodations in a golf view room.

Millennium Biltmore Hotel Includes classic-room accommodations; breakfast for two at Smeraldi's Restaurant and complimentary valet parking.

Renaissance Hollywood Hotel Upgraded accommodations for two (Executive Bedroom) • Complimentary breakfast for two at Twist • Chilled bottle of sparkling wine upon arrival • Late check-out (based on availability)

Renaissance Hollywood Hotel Deluxe accommodations for two at the Renaissance Hollywood Hotel; breakfast buffet for two at Twist, the hotel's California-eclectic restaurant; discount card from Hollywood & Highland Center; and overnight valet parking. Package does not include tickets. For ticket purchase information, visit www.ticketmaster.com or call 213-480-3232. For information on upcoming shows at the Kodak Theatre, visit www.kodaktheatre.com or call 213-480-3232.

Renaissance Hollywood Hotel Two nights of deluxe accommodations for two at the Renaissance Hollywood Hotel; (2) one-day admission tickets to Universal Studios Hollywood SM; breakfast for two daily at Twist, the hotel's restaurant; overnight self parking with in-and-out privileges for two days; discount card from Hollywood & Highland Center, adjacent to the hotel; and Universal CityWalk® savings booklet.

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel High fives are invited. Stay with us after your favorite sporting events Downtown. Catch some ZZZs on our Sweet Sleeper Bed and be on the receiving end for free parking, breakfast and bar appetizers. Fans can’t get enough of this four-pack. * Breakfast for Two * $20 Team LA Card * Complimentary Bar Appetizer * Complimentary Parking

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel Waves of relaxation are invited. Make the most of your weekend with rates starting from $149. You deserve a break with this exclusive Sheraton Weekend Getaway * Full American Breakfast for Two in our Restaurant * 4 p.m. Late Checkout, Based on Availability

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel Quality time is invited. A special rate starting from $179 makes it easy to reconnect. Make room in the heart of Downtown LA and fall in love all over again. * Bottle of Wine and Cheese Plate * Daily Full American Breakfast for Two * 4 p.m. Late Checkout

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel Breakfast on the house lets you share the morning and plan the perfect day. Treat yourself to a good night's rest and an eye-opening buffet breakfast. Package includes: * One Night of Accommodations * Breakfast Buffet for Two Each Morning

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel Traditional room, internet, buffet breakfast and Metro Day pass (for each day the package is purchased). This package starts at $185.

Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel Finger snappin’ and toe tappin’ invited. Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown is in sync with the special shows coming up in the Downtown Sports Arena area. Breakfast, appetizers, and parking are on the house. Keep the fun going just a little longer and get into the groove with a major hit package. * Breakfast for Two * $20 iTunes Card * Complimentary Bar Appetizer * Complimentary Parking

Westin Bonaventure Hotel & Suites Includes full American breakfast for 2 daily via room service or restaurant, champagne & strawberries, 4pm late check out

Westin Bonaventure Hotel & Suites Children under 12 eat free. One complimentary Childs meal available from the children's menu in exclusively in Lakeview Bistro Restaurant. One Childs meal for each full adult meal purchased for up to 2 children. Lakeview Bistro is open for Breakfast or Lunch. Plus includes one complimentary movie per night.

Westin Bonaventure Hotel & Suites Full breakfast in Lakeview Bistro for 2 daily, newspaper delivery each morning.

Here's the other promotional information I helped coordinate with Sales Directors, publicists, and others:

Pet-Friendly Hotels

Looking for a place to stay where pets are treated just like all the other paying customers? The following hotels welcome guests traveling with four-legged friends. For more information about each hotel’s specific policy, check out the following links.

Downtown

• Omni Los Angeles Hotel
• Sheraton Los Angeles Downtown Hotel
• The Standard Downtown LA
• Vagabond Inn Figueroa
• The Westin Bonaventure Hotel and Suites

Hollywood

• Best Western Hollywood Hills Hotel

Westside

• Avalon Hotel
• Beverly Hills Hotel and Bungalows
• Beverly Hills Plaza Hotel
• Beverly Wilshire, A Four Seasons Hotel
• Chamberlain Hotel
• Four Points By Sheraton, Culver City
• Four Seasons Los Angeles at Beverly Hills
• Grafton on Sunset
• Hotel Bel-Air
• Hyatt Regency Century Plaza
• Mosaic Hotel Beverly Hills
• The Orlando
• Radisson Hotel Los Angeles Westside
• Ramada Plaza Hotel & Suites – West Hollywood
• Residence Inn By Marriott, Beverly Hills
• Sofitel Los Angeles
• W Los Angeles – Westwood

Beach Cities

• Embassy Suites Hotel Los Angeles International Airport – South
• The Fairmont Miramar Hotel Santa Monica
• The Georgian Hotel
• Hilton Los Angeles Airport
• Le Merigot A JW Marriott Beach Hotel and Spa
• Loews Santa Monica Beach Hotel
• The Ritz-Carlton, Marina Del Rey
• Sheraton Delfina Hotel
• Sheraton Gateway Los Angeles Airport Hotel
• Viceroy Santa Monica
• The Westin Los Angeles Airport

San Fernando Valley

• Hilton Woodland Hills
• Sheraton Universal
• Warner Center Marriott Hotel

San Gabriel Valley

• Hilton Pasadena
• Pacific Palms Conference Resort
• The Ritz-Carlton, Huntington Hotel & Spa
• Sheraton Pasadena Hotel
• The Westin Pasadena

I feel confident in my abilities to accomplish any client's goals whether great or small. I work quickly, professionally and with a sense of humor. I look forward to working together with you soon.

For additional information, please review my professional web site: www.thejoywriter.com

Today's sermon was awesome! Last night was fun too!

By Joy A. Kennelly

Just got back from hearing a great sermon by my very funny Pastor, Jim Mackinga, over at Bay Cities Community Church in Redondo Beach. He kept asking the church to give him affirmations that we were with him so finally I yelled out "Amen Brother" and everyone laughed. I felt a little embarrassed afterwards, but sometimes I just do stuff without thinking. Still working on that.

In any case, here's the sermon notes in case you're wondering why I thought it was so good ok? Jim's been preaching on Why People Drift From God and this was part 3 of his series "Staying Close to God."

Here's the wrap-up of the 2 previous sermon notes in case you missed going and are curious to know what he shared:

How to Know I'm Drifting

1. My interest in God's word decreases.
2. My prayer life loses it's passion.
3. I no longer go to church
4. We stop investing in God's kingdom
5. We stop talking to others about Jesus
6. We begin to compromise our priorities
7. We no longer feel close to God

The Consequences of Drifting

1. Our conscience becomes less effective
2. Our life stops being faithful
3. Our level of love, joy & peace declines
4. Our prayers lose their effectiveness
5. We ask for God's discipline
6. We can wreck our life and our faith
7. We will feel shame when we meet Jesus
8. We can lose our rewards in heaven.

Now for this morning's message:

What Causes us to drift

1. Forgetting that I'm in a spiritual battle.

Galatians 5:17:
¹⁷For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want.

Romans 7:18:
¹⁸I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature.^[a] For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out.

2. Failing to remember who I really am.

Who we really are

A. My life is willing to serve Christ

2 Corinthians 5:15:
¹⁵And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again.

B. My life is changed

2 Corinthians 5:17:
¹⁷Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!

C. My life now represents God.

2 Corinthians 5:20:
²⁰We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God.

D. My life brings his message to the world.

2 Corinthians 5:21:
²¹God made him who had no sin to be sin^[a] for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.

WHAT CAUSES US TO DRIFT

3. Potential negative influences of others.

1 Corinthians 15:33:
³³Do not be misled: "Bad company corrupts good character." This one was a great point! Jim said the reason we need to stay away from bad company is that we can't handle it! Don't buy the lie you can hang with bad people and not be affected! Protect yourself with wisdom.

Helped me to realize that some of the guys I was hanging out with in Hollywood when I lived up there weren't always the best influences for me. Now that I'm way down here in the South Bay I don't see them at all or very infrequently and as a result my life is more Godly.

Just last night I was talking to one after coming home from the fun night out celebrating one of my neighbor's birthdays and he was totally talking sexual to me. I told him this booty was not for sale and then he asked if he could just lease it. Totally cracked me up, but sorry, no. I'm wanting now to wait for my husband to enjoy sex because it's too painful the other way. What a novel concept, eh?

Back to the message.

4. Loving the world's ways (is another way we are caused to drift away from God)

1 John 2:15:

Do Not Love the World

    ¹⁵Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

5. Giving into small temptations (Jim said we DO need to sweat the small stuff because most people make small bad choices that slip into bigger issues - oh how true is this one!)

Hebrews 3:13:
¹³But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin's deceitfulness.

6. Doubting that God really cares for me (when troubles hit us.)

Deuteronomy 10:12-13
Fear the LORD

    ¹² And now, O Israel, what does the LORD your God ask of you but to fear the LORD your God, to walk in all his ways, to love him, to serve the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul,¹³ and to observe the LORD's commands and decrees that I am giving you today for your own good?

7. Insisting on having God on my terms.

1 John 5:21:

    ²¹Dear children, keep yourselves from idols.

Jim said this is when people pick and choose when and what they worship and not honoring God.

Then he closed the sermon with this little story that really touched my heart in light of my involvement in the art world right now. I'm going to horribly paraphrase so bear with me.

There was an older man and a son who had acquired an amazing art collection that was worth millions of dollars. The son went away to fight in the military and soon after the father received notice that his only son had been killed.

He was mourning the loss of his son on Christmas day when there was a knock at the door. When he opened it there was a soldier standing there who had been saved when the son died helping him. He had with him a crude painting he'd created of the son's likeness which the father promptly hung on the mantle moving major artwork that was worth a lot more money.

He communicated with the soldier and then sat the rest of that Christmas morning staring up at the portrait of his beloved son. Years passed and the father died. Everyone in the art world was excited to see about his art collection so when the auction house announced they were selling the work the place was packed with eager buyers.

The auctioneer held up the first painting which was the portrait of the man's son and said, "What am I bid? $100?" The room became indignant with the crowd's impatience to get on to the "real" art. "We didn't come for that, we want to see the father's collection," someone yelled from the audience.

The auctioneer calmly replied, "We need to have someone buy this before I can go on. This was the father's wishes in his will." Finally a man held up his paddle, "I'll buy it for $50 because I knew the son and would like to have that painting." The crowd was relieved that the auction could then continue.

However, the auctioneer said, "Okay, the auction is over." The crowd was shocked. Why do you say that? What's going on? They murmured. The auctioneer explained, "Whoever wants his Son, gains the whole collection." 

I just thought that was such a beautiful analogy of God's love for us. He wants us to desire his Son and then He will give us the whole world! So, with that, I'll let you enjoy the rest of your Sunday.

I have a lot to do to get ready for. Take care!

Fun art event tonight - care to join me & my friends?

 (This is posting crazy, but I have to run to church so just read it and realize it looked better on the email ok?)

You are invited to the exclusive Saints & Sinners art show at

Cush Salon, featuring the artwork of Hector Rodriguez.

Mingle with LA's elite artists, stylists, and fashionistas and enjoy light refreshments.

 When: Sunday, October 7^th at 7 p.m.

Where: Cush Salon 171 S. Robertson Blvd, Beverly Hills, CA

310 360-7963

About Hector and his artwork:

Hairstylist, entrepreneur, artist. This self-taught painter finds his inspiration by fusing his love of pop culture with his Mexican heritage. He creates new dimensions through digital manipulation, layering of images and colours. No longer limited by humanity and hairstyling as his canvas, Hector is free to express his unique view of the world as he sees it, manifesting in the pop-surrealistic images that he creates.

Hector has joined forces with silversmith ENZO (Hector Fernandez) of Made In Moon to create jewelry inspired by his art.

About Cush Salon:

Located on posh Robertson Blvd. in Beverly Hills, Cush Salon is devoted to quality customer service and a sleek, elegant setting (complete with a cafe) for luxurious hair treatments by their staff of expert stylists.  Experience warm, friendly service and beautiful results.

Guests may bid on silent auction goods from Kerastase and more! Live art models inspired by Hector's designs will also be on display. Cush-invited makeup artist Veronica Lane to add her expert creativity to the mix. Spoken word by Poetry Vizion. Musician Dino Saldo will perform and DJ D Nastee will be spinning tunes throughout the event.

Proceeds from the silent auction will go to our sponsor SmileTrain, a charity devoted to providing surgery for children in need.

Kerastase gift bags will also be given out to the first 50 guests to RSVP.

This event brought to you courtesy of my good friend and colleague - Adrienne Dorsey of Magnolia PR.

Oh happy day...Random Sharp Objects, Harvest Home, LA Louver

By Joy A. Kennelly

I must share that although I'm not big on live theatre, my friend Esther Friedman's show, Random Sharp Objects, last night was really quite good - almost surprisingly so because I had no idea what to expect at all. I've linked to the review so you can learn more. I think it runs two more weeks so catch it if you can.

I've known her for years and have never seen her perform except in the infamous "What Happens in Vegas Stays in Vegas" commercial where she's giggling with friends in a limo.

We bumped into each other again at the Independent Television Festival where she and her friend were there as finalists for something or something like that (I forget and since I'm not their publicist and just sharing as a friend I don't have to get it right! Esther - add a comment at the end with the correct info ok?)

To make them both feel good I spoke to the publicist manning the red carpet at the festival and enabled them to do some publicity shots with I think one of their producers (again, not sure of the facts, just sharing as a friend) which can be seen here. They were thrilled and it made me feel good to help them out.

Ever since then she's been inviting me to see her show, but I have been so busy I wasn't traveling to Hollywood too much. I had a night free last night and since the theatre was right down the street from my good friend Shana, I thought what the hey.

I'm so glad I did! I'd had a very emotionally stressful morning and the play was funny. It was also very poignant too. Here's the blurb on the play from the postcard so you can check it out:

"Esther grew up mixed up 1/2 white, 1/2 black, 1/2 Jewish, 1/2 Christian. She must deal with her past to change her future. Hali comes form a good Jewish middle class home with some loose floor boards. She explores why she never fit in and sought her thrills outside.

In Random Sharp Objects these two women examine their lives, seeking answers to such profound questions as why Hali is attracted to bums and why Esther does not date black men. Together they peel the onion of illusions."

Here's a quote from Esther in the Jewish Journal article written on the play too:

"The play has proved cathartic for both actresses. 'I kept many of these stories secret for years, because they were so painful," Friedman says. "But keeping secrets can kill your spirit.'"

I could so relate to Esther's story! It was kind of comforting to realize I'm not the only one with these life experiences and to be honest I almost cried when I left the theatre it moved me so much. Esther really captures and shares what life was like growing up mixed in New York inhabiting all the characters of her family so well.

I especially loved the diatribe on her padunk-a-dunk (butt) which until this play I had actually never noticed! Not only because I'm a woman and don't make it a habit to check out other women's behinds, but also because Esther is so much more than her butt! However, it was very interesting to see what kind of issues were raised growing up because of her shape. Also, her mixed heritage.

I highly recommend checking it out if you can. She's an undiscovered talent who deserves a closer look. Sending you lots of love Esther! Hali, her counter-point, is great too! Here's some love for you too ok?

Enjoyed visiting with Shana afterward and introducing her to my South Bay girlfriend. Shana keeps promising me she'll come visit me, but I doubt it! Too far and she's way too busy too. (how do you like all the "too's"?)

Today hit the Harvest Home reunion which was interesting. Hard to believe I ever lived there to be honest, but it's the truth. Saw some old friends, made some new ones and also received a video on the place which I intend to share around. It's cool to see they have their marketing together.

A flood of memories came rushing back - the sewing classes, the nutrition classes, the birthing classes, having to cook for 10 women at least once a week, the chores, the room I lived in, my thoughts and dreams for the couple who would adopt my son, and the discipline and growing up I did there too. Also remembering producing my film festival from there! What chaos that part was. A lot went on there for me in more ways than one.

I'll never forget hating the 10pm curfew and having to do chores even when I was sick because they wanted me to experience what it would be like to have a child and be sick and responsible for the welfare of my household. I also remember all the times I had to run to the hospital for various complications - all the flus I had and all the sadness of that time.

My life is so completely different now it's amazing. God is good!

Drove around looking at some potential new places afterwards and then popped into LA Louver to check out their art on display. Hard to believe such an amazing art gallery is in Venice, CA within walking distance to the beach. Quite stunning venue. I love modern, contemporary style.

My favorite artist's pieces were Michael C. McMillen's sign painters' enamel;  Charles Garabedian's Willie Snake which is so huge it takes up almost one entire wall of the cavernous space;  Don Suggs Arc of Hours; Dan Ho's My Green Dreams (he isn't listed for some reason); and my favorite, Rebecca Campbell's Tangle , which I was surprised was so inexpensive comparatively. 

I was expecting a much higher price point because it's so visually arresting. Her other smaller works are wonderful and clustered together next to this huge piece which measures 102 x 76.5. 

I think she's absolutely brilliant and extremely gifted as an artist. Such variety in style and her images are so life-like. I would have Tangle in my house in a heartbeat if I had the type of house this piece deserves. It's so expansive and draws you in to take a closer look. One feels like you're peeking in on a real person taking a nap it's so life-like. You definitely must go to see this piece if you have time. They don't showcase the current exhibits online so you need to go visit regardless!

There was also a David Hockney on display in the reception area that is fun. For some reason though I resonated most with Rebecca Campbell's work. The entire gallery is filled with amazing artists and you'd do yourself a huge favor if you took the time to visit. Highly, highly, highly recommend it.

Okay, that's all. Just had to share. I need to hurry up and get ready to go out. Chow baby! 

Check this out - 9TH ANNUAL EAGLE ROCK MUSIC FESTIVAL, OCTOBER 6, 2007

COUNCILMEMBER JOSE HUIZAR AND CENTER FOR THE ARTS, EAGLE ROCK

TO PRESENT THE 9^TH ANNUAL EAGLE ROCK MUSIC FESTIVAL, OCTOBER 6, 2007

Chuchito Valdés Will Be One of Three Headliners at This Year’s Eclectic Sonic Festival on Colorado Boulevard in Eagle Rock

(August 27, 2007)- Los Angeles City Councilmember Jose Huizar and Center for the Arts, Eagle Rock will present the Ninth Annual Eagle Rock Music Festival, a free community street music festival on Colorado Boulevard in the community of Eagle Rock, on Saturday, October 6, 2007, from 5p.m.-Midnight.

 The festival will host an eclectic, multicultural, innovative, and local lineup, with more than 30 artists. Stages will include two outdoor main stages, with a stage featuring headlining world and rock acts and multiple showcases up and down Colorado Boulevard. A variety of genres will be represented, and the following artists:

 - Afro-Cuban jazz pianist Chuchito Valdés, son of piano legend Chucho Valdés, headlining the Global Stage

- French-Chinese chanteuse Jessica Fichot, reggae and dub from Black Shakespeare, Michelle Greene, and the Mariachi Divas (who appear courtesy of the Los Angeles County Arts Commission and the Recording Industries' Music Performance Fund through the assistance of Professional Musicians Union Local 47)

- A showcase at the Women’s Twentieth Century Club with Mia Doi Todd, HECUBA, We You., Leslie and the Badgers, and B is for Baroness

- Local indie acts The Pity Party, Bodies of Water, The Mormons, Tsk Tsk, Café Fuego, El-Haru Kuroi, and The Mama Suki

- A hip-hop showcase behind IMIX Bookstore, programmed by KPFK Divine Forces Radio DJ Fidel Rodriguez

- Jazz at Camilo’s with the Juan Vega Trio and the Tim Emmons Trio

- Renaissance Arts Vocal Ensemble, a children’s choir, at the Renaissance Arts Academy

- Interactive percussion on non-traditional, industrial items in a performance from GLANK

- Additional headliner announcements to take place in the coming week

 The free Eagle Rock Music Festival is a musical expression of the individual sensibility and community character of Eagle Rock and the surrounding communities of Northeast Los Angeles! Musicians perform in unique venues ranging from tire shops to coffee shops—and even motel poolside— up and down Colorado Boulevard, which will be closed to traffic and open to pedestrians between Eagle Rock Boulevard and Argus Street. Music venues will include stages at Rantz, the American Tire Depot, Renaissance Arts Academy, Panang, Columbo’s, Camilo’s California Bistro, Bateman Water Heater, Swork, and the Welcome Inn. Main stages will be at Caspar and Shearin, and Merton and Colorado.

Updates on the growing line-up of artists and a schedule can be found on the festival’s MySpace page: http://www.myspace.com/eaglerockmusicfestival.

 The Eagle Rock Music Festival is a centerpiece in the free arts programming of Center for the Arts, Eagle Rock, one of the last remaining arts and cultural programming centers in Northeast Los Angeles.

 The Ninth Annual Eagle Rock Music Festival is being presented with the generous support of Time Warner Cable, Bank of America Foundation, Metromix L.A., Eagle Rock Plaza, the Eagle Rock Neighborhood Council, the Los Angeles Department of Cultural Affairs, the L.A. County Arts Commission, the Women’s Twentieth Century Club, and the community and businesses of Eagle Rock. Media partners include Pasadena Weekly, L.A. Record, Citizen L.A., Boulevard Sentinel, and The Arroyo Seco Journal.

Center for the Arts, Eagle Rock is a non-profit 501(c) 3 organization whose mission is to provide multicultural and innovative arts programming to the communities of Northeast Los Angeles. Programs include exhibitions, community festivals, free and low-cost after school arts classes, a Summer Art Camp, and more.

The Center is located at 2225 Colorado Boulevard in the Los Angeles community of Eagle Rock, close to the intersection of Eagle Rock and Colorado Boulevards. For more information on the Center for the Arts, and its creative community programs, call 323-226-1617. 

 

Relationships & the 9 Things You Simply Must Do to Succeed in Love and Life again

By Joy A. Kennelly

Just got off the phone with a woman I highly respect who gave me some insight into a relationship that deeply saddens me over the way it is currently and has been for many years despite every effort I've made to heal it.

She shared that sometimes it's just not the right time for that relationship to be reconciled and we just need to let it go and move on. What I found so interesting is that her advice directly correlated with what I had just reviewed in Dr. Henry Cloud's book, 9 Things You Simply Must Do to Succeed in Love and Life this morning.

This was my third time reading it because I want the principles of this book to sink into my life and make me a better person. I highlighted all the areas I really liked and this time just reviewed those which made it a quick read.

Here's the 9 principles with some quoted excerpts from my favorite chapters in case you haven't read it yet:

1. Dig it up

"No matter what a person is trying to accomplish, if he is walking around with unresolved matters of the heart, his goals will be negatively affected. And secondly, the wise deja vu person knows that every time he faces one of those sicknesses in the heart, something better and larger emerges. Either new solutions are found in facing and solving problems, or new aspects of the soul are discovered. When we face our demons and our pain, we "reclaim the land" of our hearts and souls. You come through the suffering being better than who you were when you went it. You get back what had been taken and find extra character to boot. These wise people understand all that, and they enter in the process willingly."

2. Pull the tooth

"Successful people do not hang on to bad stuff for long. They do not allow negative things to take up space in their lives, draining them of energy and resources. They finish off problems and do not allow them to remain. They get rid of negative energy. There is certainly much thought, time, and process put into how to handle a negative situation lovingly and wisely, but there is little question as to whether or not it is going to be handled. [Y]our success in relationship and in life is going to be limited or enhanced by how well you exercise these two skills: 1. Your ability to confront and resolve negative things quickly, directly, lovingly, thoroughly, and effectively. 2. Your ability to let go and leave behind the things that are not resolvable. Proverbs 22:3:

    ³ A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge,
       but the simple keep going and suffer for it.

3. Play the movie

"Any one thing you do is only a scene in a larger movie. To understand that action, you have to play it out all the way to the end of the movie."

4. Do something

"What can I do to make this situation better? ... To psychologists, philosophers, and theologians, who is at fault, is not the big issue. That is a legal question. What is an issue is being responsible in terms of ownership. To own my life means that it is mine and no other person's. I can blame no one for what I do with it. I can blame them for what they do to me, but I cannot blame them for what I do with what they do to me. I am responsible for how I respond....To the degree that we allow life just to happen and are not active forces to change whatever situation we find ourselves in, we are not living up to our true humanity by reflecting God's nature."

5. Act like an ant

"They achieved their goals by taking tiny steps over time."

Proverbs 6:6-8:

    ⁶ Go to the ant, you sluggard;
       consider its ways and be wise!

    ⁷ It has no commander,
       no overseer or ruler,

    ⁸ yet it stores its provisions in summer
       and gathers its food at harvest.

"All success is built and sustained just like a building is built, one brick at a time."

6. Hate well (this chapter and principle spoke the most to me.)

"In reality though, hate is one of the most important aspects of being human. It is one of the most crucial ingredients of a good person's character. What we hate says a lot about who we are, what we value, what we care about. And how we hate says much about how we will succeed in love and life.... Basically, we are defined in part by what we love and what we hate. What we love says what we will invest in, go for, move towards, give time and resources to, and orient ourselves toward with the best parts of who we are. You can tell a lot about people by what they love....Likewise, we can know a lot about people by what they hate....Successful people move against the problem, and show love and respect to the person at the same time....Deja vu people tend to have immune responses to things that are truly infections, poisons, toxins and dangers....Deja vu people tend to address the real toxins of life in specific, effective ways that face the issues and respect the persons involved."

Proverbs 6:16-19:

    ¹⁶ There are six things the LORD hates,
       seven that are detestable to him:

    ¹⁷ haughty eyes,
       a lying tongue,
       hands that shed innocent blood,

    ¹⁸ a heart that devises wicked schemes,
       feet that are quick to rush into evil,

    ¹⁹ a false witness who pours out lies
       and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers.

Psalm 101:3-7:

    ³ I will set before my eyes
       no vile thing.
       The deeds of faithless men I hate;
       they will not cling to me.

    ⁴ Men of perverse heart shall be far from me;
       I will have nothing to do with evil.

    ⁵ Whoever slanders his neighbor in secret,
       him will I put to silence;
       whoever has haughty eyes and a proud heart,
       him will I not endure.

    ⁶ My eyes will be on the faithful in the land,
       that they may dwell with me;
       he whose walk is blameless
       will minister to me.

    ⁷ No one who practices deceit
       will dwell in my house;
       no one who speaks falsely
       will stand in my presence.

"'Whenever I see destructive behavior, I am going to leave that scene. I won't trust people who are betrayers so I won't be walking around with a lot of hurt. I will stay away from people who twist good things such as love or sex and use them in some impure way. I won't play that game. I don't want to be close to those who are slanderers and put others down. And those arrogant types who think they are so superior and try to put me down can just stay away. I want to be around good people with good hearts and spend my time with them. I want to receive what they have to offer. I won't be around liars and people who are not into truth.'"

"When you apply objective things like time, space, understanding, specific events, specific emotions, and specific places to the origins of your hate, you begin to put them in their proper place. Realize that your hurt comes from a different time in the past and let the span between then and now help you get a new perspective on it. Understand what the hurtful incident meant for you then, and what is has come to mean for you today. Think about what new understanding you can bring to those same kinds of events today that can reduce their power in your life. Work through the feelings and emotions of it all with a trusted person or group. When you trace the origins of your feelings to objective people or events, you can begin to understand them and sort them according to their value.

You must take from those experiences the things that you want to learn and make part of you, such as what kinds of people are untrustworthy and should be avoided, or specific skills that would make you stronger now and not susceptible to the same kind of injury again. Above all, seek healing and understanding for the parts of you that have been injured."

7. Don't play fair (This chapter was another favorite. Lots of good stuff in it! Too much to put here, but these scriptures really speak to it - these were provided in the book.)

Luke 6:32-35:

    ³²"If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. ³³And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that. ³⁴And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' lend to 'sinners,' expecting to be repaid in full. ³⁵But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.

Romans 12:17-18:

    ¹⁷Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. ¹⁸If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.

Romans 12:21:
²¹Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

"GIVE BACK BETTER THAN YOU ARE GIVEN"

Proverbs 24:17-18:

    ¹⁷ Do not gloat when your enemy falls;
       when he stumbles, do not let your heart rejoice,

    ¹⁸ or the LORD will see and disapprove
       and turn his wrath away from him.

8. Be humble

"Humility is not having a need to be more than you are."

"Identifying with other normal humans who fail leads to a number of success patterns, as we shall continue to see. The first two of these are huge factors in achieving success:

1. Successful people show kindness, understanding, and help to others who fail.

2. Successful people are not derailed by their own failures; they accept them as a normal part of the process.

People who win in life do not condemn themselves for failure; they accept it. They learn from it. Failure motivates them to do better. They do not beat themselves up for it, and they don not begin to believe that they cannot accomplish something just because they failed. Because they are humble and identify with the human race that makes mistakes and fails, they see failure as normal. They expect it to come, so they are not surprised when it does. They use it and do not feel disqualified because of it. It is a paradox of monumental proportions.

Regarding their imperfections, these people do at least two things very well that build success, foster good relationships, and encourage learning, growth and wisdom:

1. They admit it quickly when they are wrong.

2. They receive correction and confrontation from others well.

Proverbs 9:7:

    ⁷ "Whoever corrects a mocker invites insult;
       whoever rebukes a wicked man incurs abuse.

Proverbs 15:12:

    ¹² A mocker resents correction;
       he will not consult the wise."

9. Upset the right people

"Deja Vu people do not make decisions based on the fear of other people's reactions. What you should do, and what someone's response is going to be, are two very different issues."

Proverbs 19:19:

    ¹⁹ A hot-tempered man must pay the penalty;
       if you rescue him, you will have to do it again.

That is the thing to remember about trying to appease controlling and angry people. If you let their anger decide your course of action for you - whether to give or not to give - then you have just trained them in how to get what they want out of you. You have set yourself up for the same experience again.

In addition, do you really want to give to someone who is only going to hate you? What kind of relationship is that? What kind of love is that? True love would accept your choice and respect your having to say no.

If you are resetting your course based on the fact that someone might get angry with you, you have chosen a flimsy foundation upon which to make a decision. You have lost control of yourself, and that is not what successful people do. They are not held hostage by anger.

They go against the odds if the odds are against what is right. They are willing to be the odd one, risking loss of approval in order to do the right thing. They understand that the approval of others does not go very far in making one truly fulfilled. It may be nice for a moment but getting up every day and doing what you believe in is much more lasting."

Funny Google searches, new UCLA class & Halloween wishes

By Joy A. Kennelly

It always cracks me up to see how people Google things and then find my blog. Tonight someone just Googled Christian woman with drinking problem and found me - so untrue! Made me LOL. Oy vey!

On another note, loving my new PR class at UCLA with Henri Bollinger of Bollinger PR. I've known him through the Entertainment Professional Publicist Society (EPPS) for years and it's nice to hear his words of wisdom and stories. Very nice man and very interesting class.

My little nieces loved the presents I sent via my mom which made me happy. I love kids and love being an aunt. It's so fun to spoil them. My son should be getting his presents any day now too. He's so smart. I just love hearing about it!

Very busy with clients and other things. Life is good. Hope you are too!

Happy early Halloween all!